[Futureboy]

Hi JS

Well????

[LanaBear]

I do want to stress three things that have already been said. Lube, I prefer AstroGlide, I tried a silicone lube once and didn't like it, it was too slippery, in a different way. Relax, you'll be tense because it is a completely different experience, but just breathe and relax. Slow slow slow, make sure he goes slow because you will need time to adjust to him.

Have fun!

[Millania]

SO true Lanabear about the silicone lube, I didnt like it either, not to be gross but it got clumpy! Lube is not supposed to clump up like on my outer skin by my legs!
Astroglide is what is currently in my nightstand drawer I love this stuff! its great! so far its my favorite, I dont really like the warming stuff too much, especially not for anal lovins
The KY Silky is also good too but I did a little mini test on my 2 index fingers to see which one is better, I put astro on one and KY silky on the other then I rubbed my thumbs/index fingers for a couple minutes to see which lube was better
I found that KY Silky started to fade faster and I could feel my fingerprints easier and the KYSilky fingers ended up being less lubed at the end
Anyway hopefully JS can update us on how everything went, I hope everything goes well, I know my first time for anal I was really nervous and scared
shoot I am still nervous when we do(we have only done it like 10 times)
because I always worry that I will tighten up too much and he wont be able to get it in etc so I just try to remind myself to relaaaxx and breathe, then FINALLy once its in, the fun can begin

[EverDream]

If you're worried about not wanting to be messy down there, a friend of mine told me the day before eat less, and stay away from greasy foods or any foods that'll cause you to run for the bathroom. Drink lots of water to get your bowel movements going.

The next day, try to eat very little, that way you won't have so much food inside your intestines, and not worry about a big mess. I've heard some horror stories, but very rarely do people accidently 'go' on their partners.

My first time, I took a nice hot shower. It may seem gross, but stick a finger in your anus. It it feels clean, then it would be a good time to try it out. If you feel something, then maybe you'll want to wait till it's clean.

Use lubrication. I laid on my stomach and had him go slowly from behind. It felt very strange at first. Every time he would rock away, it felt like I was about to go on him. But that never happened, so don't worry. My friend told me that's how it feels the first few times.

Then I laid on my back, with my legs hanging off the bed. He stood up by the bed and held my lower body a little high off the mattress. It felt better that way.
Try different positions and see which on feels good for you

[Jessbaby]

me and my husband do it every once in a while. and every time it still hurts lol. but i think the best advice is to relax. usually what we do is have vaginal sex until he is almost ready to inish. than we do anal. and some other ood advice but pretty gross. if he is going to finish in your butt than have a towell or something ready for when he pulls out becuase the cum will just come out lol.. sorry for being too graphic but i learnde

[Guest]

i am not a big fan of using lube or Vaseline. just feels too gooey afterwards.

take a warm shower and clean the area up first. warm water does help to relax the muscles. then have him finger you gently up front, then after you start getting excited begin to probe the back area with another finger, slowly pushing further and taking his time. i find it makes it more relaxed and not so painful.

tried to not be so graphic

[danceintx]

I am not recommending this, but I had a gay male friend once tell me he would douche his backdoor. I'm sure it's the same concept as an enema, but with a floral smell.

[Millania]

Jessbaby aw it still hurts right? me 2! only the first few minutes though, why does this type of sx have to be so hard to do? why cant it be easy and simple, so much prep before, dont eat a lot, relax, take your time,lube, finger, gosh, thank goodness most of our men understand this and only ask for it once in a while
Does anyone out there LOVE this type of lovin'? Like want it EVERY weekend just curious as to how many women out there absolutley just cant wait to get some anal lovin'