[Mes T]

Going off the "how old were you" thread...

My first time was... confusing, as it took a few tries to "fit" together properly. Ahh, the days before I knew anything about foreplay, lubrication, etc!

Didn't hurt at all, but didn't feel particularly pleasurable either.

Regardless, it was still pretty exciting. Afterwards, I sat around for a while trying to analyze if it had "changed" me at all... And realized that "first time"s were way overrated.

[Mitchel1870]

Not sure if you were asking for the males point of view but I thought it was the greatest thing ever. I do remeber feeling very guilty afterwards (I was raised Baptist which brings with it a lot of guilt). I am still trying to figure out what the other sex gets out of it though. First times don't seem fair for the girls though if I remeber correctly.

[Fish]

Well...speaking from recent memory (my first time was a little over a week ago!)...

It was amazing. My boyfriend and I had waited 3 years for to have sex so we made it super special. It hurt quite a bit at first, but we took it slow and eventually I was able to take almost his entire length in without pain. I didn't orgasm the first time but I did the next morning! I felt such a strong and inexplicable connection to him...it was truly magical for us (does that sound tacky?? Haha well it's true).

[ThexMrs]

Oh man... My first time was a bust. I chose the wrong person for starters. I was 20 and he was 35. It didn't really hurt but it definitely didn't feel good. He basically nailed me to the bed with all of the pounding. Finally, we switched things up and I got on top. I had no idea what I was doing and I felt like a total reject. Then he hit it from behind and finished in my mouth. He told me that there was no way I was a virgin because of how good I was. Whatever... The next day we had sex again. I didn't really want to but he wanted it bad so I went along with it. After I went home I didn't hear from him for about a week. Shortly after I called it quits. Even though he told me he loved me for 4 months before I had sex with him, he didn't. He just wanted to take my virginity. We're not even friends anymore. I tried to stay in contact and he was good about it at first but that changed as well. I haven't talked to him in a long time.

[newhere808]

First time. . .well it was on a couch, sitting up while she stradled me after a whole lot of foreplay. She was not a virgin so she just kind of took the lead. It felt great, but what short lived. I moaned a bit and she thought I was coming, so she tried to get off really quick and ended up hurting herself. We made good the next day though. We were together for about a year or so before hand, and stayed together for about a year and a half after. Some really stupid stuff happened so were no longer in contact.

[justjumpit]

Oh my..
My first time was with the boyfriend I am still with today. We thought about it for quite some time beforehand to make sure that we really wanted to do it and take it to that next "level". And I definitely don't regret it.
No pain, none at all. It wasn't 'mindblowingly' good, but we both definitely enjoyed it alot.

[kira]

If it wasn't new it would have been boring. The fact it was something new made it at least worth trying and then trying again 5mins later and again the next day and the next day..... Otherwise nothing remarkable happened even if we count that entire week of sex. The only interesting part is the whole thing started with a misunderstanding where the word cough syrup became code for condoms. I really did just need to go to the store for cough syrup since his mom smoked....

[Mes T]

The only interesting part is the whole thing started with a misunderstanding where the word cough syrup became code for condoms. I really did just need to go to the store for cough syrup since his mom smoked....

Oh my. Teehee.

[LanaBear]

Completely uneventful. I was 14 dating a Marine, 18 or 19 (I know I know, I don't know what I was thinking at that age). Anyways, we were up in my room, my mom and stepdad downstairs. Started making out and ended up doing it, it hurt, I was thinking, what the H&LL! We were done, went on a walk, I never spoke to him again. My choice. He was leaving the next day to go back to base, we were still together at that time, but when he left I just really didn't want to talk or see him again. He called and called and called, I was always, well, washing my hair... He wrote letters, I never responded. I don't know why I felt that way, but I did.

[ThexMrs]

Lana is a meanie, haha.