My boyfriend is really weird. He doesn't like to hear about my bleeding because he says it's kinds yuk but he's happy to have sex with me if I'm on light flow. He also gets upset because he can't do oral for me lol.
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My boyfriend doesn't mind at all. He doesn't get weirded or grossed out over anything! It's actually kind of really nice that he doesn't get weirded out by things. I only don't like having it (sex) during my period because my vagina can get really sensitive and sore during that time.
This is, however, the first time I heard sex can help ease cramps??? Sometimes I get horrible cramps and all I can do is lay in a fetal position on the bed and moan in agony and wish that I'd just die. (Yes, I have gotten that dramatic. But they have been THAT painful!)
Sometimes, though, I can use my period as an excuse not to have sex since he has a much higher sex drive than I do and I get tired easily from it.[FONT="Book Antiqua"][I][B][I]"Look both ways before you cross the street" [/I][/B][/I][/FONT]Comment
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I would agree with the age comment to a certain degree. Well, not so much the age but I think there is a maturity level that men need to reach before this. My boyfriend is 32 and has absolutely no problem with this. Then there is my ex who is 37 and would only do it in the shower. To each their own.
As for what St. Angel said about relieving cramps. I've actually gotten much worse pain from orgasming so I think it depends on your body.[CENTER][I][COLOR=purple][B][FONT=Garamond]"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? [/FONT][/B][B][FONT=Garamond]Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. [/FONT][/B][B][FONT=Garamond]The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."[/FONT][/B][/COLOR][/I][/CENTER]Comment
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I agree too. My boyfriend is 28 (I am 23) and has reached a great level of maturity. I really love it. My ex was 6 months younger than me, and he got weirded out by everything. I think a lot depends on personality as well.
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My b/f is the same, he's not bothered about it. I dont have heavy periods so it doesn't cause too much of a mess!Comment
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