[kygirl]

Making love is about a deep connection enhanced through intercourse, usually a slower more sensuous experience.

Sex is just doing it.

Both are great but I think you need both.

Agree completely.

[StillLearnin]

Making love is ALWAYS GREAT! Its the moment your partner and yourself develop that connection where it feels as if your souls are touching. There is no wrong move, no wrong stroke, your breathing is synchronized...every sense you have is working your bodies are creating a warmth and a glow...its music

Agreed 100%.

And we probably all agree that both sex and love making are needed in a relationship.

Sex is a recreational activity. Making love is a bonding activity.

[pretzel]

In my own litttle fantasy world, the biggest differences between "sex" and "making love" most definately revolve around the emotional and intimate aspects. There is a different feeling I have inside. One is more selfishness, the other is more about pleasing.

[justjumpit]

In my own litttle fantasy world, the biggest differences between "sex" and "making love" most definately revolve around the emotional and intimate aspects. There is a different feeling I have inside. One is more selfishness, the other is more about pleasing.

Ah I was kinda thinking along those lines too. Sex is kinda more on the side of pleasing yourself, while making love is pleasing your partner.
And yes, I think both are essential.