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  • sadlady82
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2010
    • 1

    help me!!!

    Im single and 27 years old.. im not in a relationship but i still mess around with my son father but over the past month he have not been wanting 2 have sex with me and now i think its somebody else. im not the type 2 go sleep with anybody and whats so bad is that i dont hsve any toys 2 please myself ugh help me......

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    • Ms_Maam
      Junior Member
      • Jan 2010
      • 6

      I have also been masturbating since childhood and when in relationships, I have found that it actually enhances the sexual experience. I'm not sure how, but the stimulation, whether alone or with help from my partner, has served as another form of foreplay and increased the ability to have multiple orgasms. There is no replacement for hot, monogamous, passionate lovemaking but with the proper preparation it can be oh so good! It is during those times, one does not need to wonder if he/she is enjoying it - you just know because you both fold with exhaustion afterward.

      Mutual masturbation is also a healthy practice for couples if for some reason intercourse is not possible. With an open mind, great communication, and a healthy attitude about sex in general, it can be a wonderful experience.

      I personally could not imagine not touching myself and discovering what turns me on. When I learn something new, I like to explore it with my partner and incorporate it into our romantic encounters. Experimentation heightens the pleasure and makes me want more!

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      • p3375
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2010
        • 375

        I could live without masturbation. I could also live with only one pair of shoes. But thank goodness I don't have to! Wow, I can't imagine not masturbating fairly regularly. I love my toys, and love mutual masturbation w/ my SO's. Ever has a guy wack himself while you watch? Lots of guys can't/won't. The act leaves one so vulnerable!
        Anyway, starting to ramble. Let's just say I love it both alone and with someone. BIG SMILE!!
        P

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        • SecretlySad
          Senior Member
          • Nov 2009
          • 166

          Originally posted by p3375
          I could also live with only one pair of shoes.
          GASP!! Take that back!

          Originally posted by p3375
          Ever has a guy wack himself while you watch?
          That's hot.

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          • Ms_Maam
            Junior Member
            • Jan 2010
            • 6

            Originally posted by p3375
            Ever has a guy wack himself while you watch? Lots of guys can't/won't. The act leaves one so vulnerable!
            Yes and it is extremely exciting. It is also very stimulating to sit across the room and watch each other.

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