[Cythera]

Hi All


My first post here, good to have all women forum to share experiences. (removed outbound link)
I am married for about 2.5 years, and hubby has a job that requires travelling very often. I’ve been thinking to get one of those but always have this sort of guilty feeling with the fact that I am married hence the thought that I suppose to have sex with husband rather than toys. Is there any member here who married but own one of these?

Thanks.

[Futureboy]

Hi C

Some of the ladies can give you an honest perspective

All I can say is toys are something you can use together and alone. I am sure your SO would prefer you use a toy that a boy (well man). May be its something to use for a little phone sex?

Dont feel guilty about doing something you enjoy and hurts no one. The only problem is if you want the toy more than your SO

Try Rabbit toys these IMO are the best

Enjoy Fb

[Ahryin]

They have something called Clone-A-Willie maybe you should use it. If he knows you are using a copy of him maybe he will have a better perspective of it

[SinisterUrge]

The current Toy-of-the-month here is of the solid glass type. Next the lil' lady says she wants to try polished stone or stainless steel.

[manspoint]

If you are feeling guilty about using a toy when he is not around here are some tips.

It is your body and as long as you are loving and faithful you shouldn't feel any guilt about getting some pleasure while he is not around. He's probably pleasuring himself at the same time. (image)

Introduce him to your new toy. Let him use it with you. If he is anything like me he will love your toy as much as you do....and maybe even in that way too.

Don't hide it or lie to him. You don't have to blurt it out but if he inquires tell him the truth.

I am away from home all week too and one night a got a video message on my phone. It was 30 seconds of my wife rubbing herself with her toy. Well, that is the most beautiful thing she could do for me while we are apart. It is not just sexy and hot, but loving that she did that for me.

Have fun together and apart. While apart you can have phone or chat fun too, describing what you are doing or want the other to do. Very raunchy.

At the end of the day it's sex and it's supposed to be enjoyed.

[kira]

My husband had more sex toys than I did until he bought me more.

[manspoint]

My husband had more sex toys than I did until he bought me more.

I'm the purchasing officer in our bedroom too!

[PJhavinfunagain]

I am married (9 years)and I have recently become a toy lover! I recommend becoming proficient with your hands first. If DH travels a lot you can get hooked on toys and he may not feel as good when you are together. I try to limit my toy exposure so as not to decrease my sensitivity. Sometimes what God gave is is just right!

[LanaBear]

Try Rabbit toys these IMO are the best

Enjoy Fb

Nah - the Rabbits are COMPLETELY overrated in my opinion!

But anyways, you shouldn't feel guilty using them. As long as it doesn't cause problems.

[LilahX]

Don't feel guilty about considering this and make it a shared thing. It's very common for married/attached women to have toys.

Either go with him to buy something, or ask him to buy you something (online if you can't or don't want to go to an actual store). Play with it before he goes away so he's seen you in action, then when he's away send him texts or emails telling him what you're going to do - or ifyou have phone calls (or better yet phone sex) he'll be hot and bothered knowing what you're doing. Most men loooove the thought of a woman pleasuring herself so it's a win/win situation.