[AliceJW]

You shouldn't feel guilty about it, I say go ahead and purchase one. If you share it with him and include him in your fun then I think it'll be a good experience for both of you.

[manspoint]

Don't feel guilty about considering this and make it a shared thing. It's very common for married/attached women to have toys.

Either go with him to buy something, or ask him to buy you something (online if you can't or don't want to go to an actual store). Play with it before he goes away so he's seen you in action, then when he's away send him texts or emails telling him what you're going to do - or ifyou have phone calls (or better yet phone sex) he'll be hot and bothered knowing what you're doing. Most men loooove the thought of a woman pleasuring herself so it's a win/win situation.

LilahX knows me too well...how can that be? I am that transparent?

[JennieBottle]

I've never really used toys before, I experimented with them when I was a bit younger, but I've never really liked them from what I remember. Not that I wouldn't be open to trying something, I just wouldn't know where to start. I really like having the real deal instead. But my fiance has a job that requires him to sometimes be gone for a week or so, leaving me alone for a bit. Has anyone tried that clone a willie thing? I might try that...

[sarahlee20]

I love using my vibrator/dildo. I love how it gives me clitoral stimulation. I use it sometimes when i am ovulating and can't have sex. I love when my fiance watches too. It turns him on then he wants to do it to me.