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  • ItsASecret
    APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
    • Apr 2009
    • 3721

    Are you sure he is not experiencing the common phenomenon of SPAO?-Senstive Penis After Orgasm. It would be the male equivalent of us ladies not being able to touch our clitoris after orgasm for a bit of time because it gets waaayyy too sensitive and sometimes even painful. Unless there is a burning sensation within the penis, noticeable skin irritation like a rash, or a lot of discomfort during the day I highly doubt there is any cause for concern. He just may not want to go a second round after sex because his penis is much too sensitive...my boyfriend is like that.
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    • newhere808
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2009
      • 541

      Originally posted by WildChild
      You would think that byt he time they were on the far side of 40 they would figure it out, wouldn't you?
      Lol one would think, only took me once, raw skin is no fun!

      Nameless,

      When he talks about it hurting ask him if he's using some lube, and if he isn't then have him try with some (KY, astroglide, whatever) and see how that fares.

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