[cubanlink]

im 25 and cuban, im 6'4 225.... i work out live a healthy life. all i do is smoke here n there. stopped drinkin, drink sum wine on sum weekends. i look like i should be hungggg. but the facts are im on thin-line on average size.2-3 inches soft and 6-6.5 hard.
i was in a 7yr relationship with a girl that i was her first. didnt know about sex. so i guess she saw me as average, n we didnt talk about it much.

now im dating and suffering....
i cant get hard sometimes...
i dont feel as much as with my ex...thinking im not big enough.
in my mind im thinking should i take viagra to pump more blood in there and show at least another half n inch and try to look normal? or should i do blood work? or see a doctor.
need help?

[SinisterUrge]

6.5 is actually on the large end of the spectrum. Any larger and you start running into problems from being too big (Unless your idea of fun sex doesn't include full penetration.)

[Hopeless Dork]

If you think your erections aren't as hard as they can be... I suppose it wouldn't hurt to go to a dr and get a physical. If blood isn't flowing there as it should , it could be an indicator blood isn't flowing to other major organs as good as it could. Not to put any scare in you as there is probably nothing wrong but diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, etc... can all play a role in your erections. As can low testonsterone, testicular cancer etc.

Those are all on the way least likely to be going on right now end, but there is no harm in getting a physical and make sure your body is otherwise healthy... after that it could just be a mental thing as to why you are not obtaining full erections.

I would not try to self-medicate with viagra, especially without finding out what is causing this in the first place as that can be dangerous.

If your erection isn't as big or as hard... are you not receiving as much pleasure as you would when it was bigger or harder? Is it a mental thing as in you feel bigger so you thinking you are performing better thus enjoying it more? Or is this a physical sensation we are talking about?

6 inches without the added fractions is plenty fine for the average woman who has a vaginal canal depth of about 3-5 inches.. and a typical gspot location of 1 to 3 inches in.

If a woman is not enjoying the sex it almost never has anything to do with how small or big a guys penis is... but how much foreplay he is providing, how much he is paying attention to our responses and giving the kind of stimulation we need. How engaged he is in the act and his passion.

[cubanlink]

If you think your erections aren't as hard as they can be... I suppose it wouldn't hurt to go to a dr and get a physical. If blood isn't flowing there as it should , it could be an indicator blood isn't flowing to other major organs as good as it could. Not to put any scare in you as there is probably nothing wrong but diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, etc... can all play a role in your erections. As can low testonsterone, testicular cancer etc.

Those are all on the way least likely to be going on right now end, but there is no harm in getting a physical and make sure your body is otherwise healthy... after that it could just be a mental thing as to why you are not obtaining full erections.

I would not try to self-medicate with viagra, especially without finding out what is causing this in the first place as that can be dangerous.

If your erection isn't as big or as hard... are you not receiving as much pleasure as you would when it was bigger or harder? Is it a mental thing as in you feel bigger so you thinking you are performing better thus enjoying it more? Or is this a physical sensation we are talking about?

6 inches without the added fractions is plenty fine for the average woman who has a vaginal canal depth of about 3-5 inches.. and a typical gspot location of 1 to 3 inches in.

If a woman is not enjoying the sex it almost never has anything to do with how small or big a guys penis is... but how much foreplay he is providing, how much he is paying attention to our responses and giving the kind of stimulation we need. How engaged he is in the act and his passion.

this was really important to me to come here and write this...thanks for everything.... i have wayyy other questions.... should i post another question?

[cubanlink]

6.5 is actually on the large end of the spectrum. Any larger and you start running into problems from being too big (Unless your idea of fun sex doesn't include full penetration.)

if 6.5 is maximun, why im the smallest of all my friends,n feel small....

[ItsASecret]

if 6.5 is maximun, why im the smallest of all my friends,n feel small....

There is no maximum, it is based on a bell curve. Falling deadsmack in the middle of all men I would say that 5.5-6 inches is the average. From there the male penis can be smaller or larger, but everything eventually balances out into a nice bell curve traditional statistic. 6.5 is not huge but it is just slightly above average, there shouldn't be any reason to feel ashamed about being a tiny bit larger than the average guy.

A huge majority of women simply do not care about size, they care about how it is used. Viagra will not solve anything, there are no pills that will permanently increase size. Just be happy with what you have because any bigger and it can actually be a problem (coming from first hand experience).

[newhere808]

Penis size varies all across the spectrum, and 6.5 is above average. If you friends are all bigger than you (shouldn't really matter) then that doesn't mean your behind the ball, simply that they are farther above average.

Believe it or not many women actually have a problem with long penises, as mentioned above the vaginal canal isn't very long in most women. Like HD mentioned, knowing what to do with it is more important that it's actual size, and there is a massive amount of material out there to help you out in that regard.

[cubanlink]

another thing, i feel i dont get strong hard, because i dont feel her vagina tight!
it bothers me, i feel small once again.. or i think she had wayy bigger and her vagina its use to opening that wide, sum times her vagina farts cuz of air coming in, so i change position and it continues, she use to be way heavier, and i found out her ex was african american, could this be things or im creating this as a problem?

[danceintx]

I don't think her weight has anything to do with the size of her vagina, and I don't think that all african american men are well endowed. I am not sure why you are convinced your penis size is so small. My ex husband was 6'4" and weighed 300 pounds and his was around 4 inches, no lie. Any woman with a brain in her head and maturity under her belt knows that outward appearances have nothing to do with penis size, and would make no assumptions as to how big you should be. I think 6.5 inches is just fine and you have nothing to worry about.

[Texasred]

if 6.5 is maximun, why im the smallest of all my friends...

I don't really want to know the answer to this question, but here goes anyway:
How would you know this???