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  • anna17
    Junior Member
    • Nov 2009
    • 1

    sex help/advice please...

    first time...
    after a men enters you, what do you do next while he's in you?
  • cubanlink
    Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 44

    Originally posted by anna17
    first time...
    after a men enters you, what do you do next while he's in you?
    plz dont just lay there, moan and scream ur feelings away!.. it will make him get out of his shell

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    • sarahlee20
      Veteran Member
      • Feb 2010
      • 334

      well you can kiss him rub him everywhere..arch against him lick him bite him u can do anything u want to him. tell him where to touch or lick u or anything u want.....enjoy how it feels express yourself by shouting moaning talking dirty..the list goes on... lol
      Life's a dance you learn as you go

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      • stressed
        Veteran Member
        • Jun 2009
        • 1914

        Originally posted by cubanlink
        plz dont just lay there, moan and scream ur feelings away!.. it will make him get out of his shell
        I've been thinking... We often hear out neighbours (well, the woman basically) scream when they have sex for like 20 mins straight. I just don't get this "screaming" part, it just sounds fake to me. Sure, it can be erotic to a man but don't men realize that if she starts to scream right away it's fake? Isn't it better to just moan when it really feels nice instead of moaning from the first second just to make him like it more?
        It's only in porn women do that, it's not how it really is...

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        • Guest

          Originally posted by stressed
          I've been thinking... We often hear out neighbours (well, the woman basically) scream when they have sex for like 20 mins straight. I just don't get this "screaming" part, it just sounds fake to me. Sure, it can be erotic to a man but don't men realize that if she starts to scream right away it's fake? Isn't it better to just moan when it really feels nice instead of moaning from the first second just to make him like it more?
          It's only in porn women do that, it's not how it really is...
          oh here we go... to scream, or not to scream
          the desire to make noise or not make noise is as individual and varied as anything else. i actually saw on the discovery channel, the program was all about human sexuality and evolution.. that the reaction for a female to make alot of noise during sex is actually an evolutionary response. it is something alot of women do at the sonconious level to arouse their male counterpart.. and the reaction is that it works. as a man i can tell you without a doubt that it is not always fake and it when it is not it absolutely has an affect on me.. it can turn me into a sexual animal. i dated a girl who said she could not reach an orgasm without making a little noise. the rythm and sound of her voice help her with breathing and relaxation and boy did it do wonders for me too.. throw in some raunchy talk and dirty words and we would both be cumming in short order

          once he is inside you, do what feels good to you.. it will be exactly what feels good to him also. its science.. its evolution.. its nature

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          • CHANDLERS WISH
            • Mar 2008
            • 22440

            Stressed, got to agree with dr.tony.

            You can't generalise it at all... Yessum, off course Actors will play on what ever they have to in order to achieve the desired role.

            But, we are all different creatures and it's a matter of that individual person how they react, respond or desire to act in order to have that sexual compatibility they personally desire, or the outcome they desire
            PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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            • Hopeless Dork
              Veteran Member
              • Dec 2008
              • 4255

              My body responds in ways I don't seem to have much more control over. I never contrive a response it just happens. Sometimes I moan, sometimes I scream, sometimes I talk dirty, sometimes I pant, sometimes I am silent and almost holding my breath... I don't hold back and I don't put on ... I just feel and what happens, happens.
              Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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              • p3375
                Veteran Member
                • Jan 2010
                • 375

                I think when I am feeling something very intensely and just let my body take over, that's when I scream. Not just during sex, either. Bad fall out of a tree once. Screamed all the way down.
                P

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                • LanaBear
                  Veteran Member
                  • Jul 2009
                  • 8373

                  Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
                  My body responds in ways I don't seem to have much more control over. I never contrive a response it just happens. Sometimes I moan, sometimes I scream, sometimes I talk dirty, sometimes I pant, sometimes I am silent and almost holding my breath... I don't hold back and I don't put on ... I just feel and what happens, happens.
                  Exactly, ditto here.

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                  • sarahlee20
                    Veteran Member
                    • Feb 2010
                    • 334

                    Originally posted by Hopeless Dork
                    My body responds in ways I don't seem to have much more control over. I never contrive a response it just happens. Sometimes I moan, sometimes I scream, sometimes I talk dirty, sometimes I pant, sometimes I am silent and almost holding my breath... I don't hold back and I don't put on ... I just feel and what happens, happens.
                    It's kind of how i respond too. I just let the noises and sounds come and when it happens. But like you I make low moans and whimpers,and pants and sometimes just shake...It's all good. I can't say i've come out and screamed...yet...unless moaning out my hubbys name counts.
                    Life's a dance you learn as you go

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