[WildChild]

I've tried not to gag and sometimes i don't but most times i do. It's really annoying when i do. wonder how i could prevent that..

Try relaxing and have him go down on you - problem solved - no neck cramps, no aching jaw, no gagging.

[sarahlee20]

Try relaxing and have him go down on you - problem solved - no neck cramps, no aching jaw, no gagging.

Thanks so much. He has before. I like it it feels good too.I don't usually orgasm from it but. that's ok.

[racer]

I'll try to anser all your questions. Firstly worth remembering that getting oral always makes us happy so just doing it put you on a winner.

As for position experimentation is the key try kneeling on a pillow while he's sat on the sofa/bed for comfort or 69 for mutual pleasure.

No average time for a man to cum i'm afraid but generally bringing your hands in to play more will spee things up.

When it come to technique I would suggets two hands and mouth with lots of lubricatioons feels great (hands also help prevent you going too deep and gagging). Also don't forget to play with his balls (hands as well as lick and suck) depending on the guy and your own tastes a finger up the bum might be desirable (though probably too much for mos people)

Some big hints are to remember guys depend largely on visual stimulation so it' sgood if he can see what ypou are doind / make eye contact. Also good if you are topless/ naked.

With respect to gagging i would suggest keeping a hand around the base of his penis it's easy for us guys to get caried away and thrust or push on your head too much (tie his hand behind his back isn't a bad idea)

[LilahX]

[QUOTE= He goes too deep and it makes me want to puke. lol Which i hate. I'd like it to more enjoyable. I've tried doing hand jobs too. Which I like. Sometimes takes him longer to come that way. QUOTE]

1. Going too deep can be avoided by not letting him thrust into your mouth. I never let this happen. I either just be blunt and say 'don't do that', or if I don't want to break the mood I just use my hand as well and control the degree of penetration. I like to be the one in control of giving head and don't really enjoy my mouth being (edit) so I just make sure it never is.

2. I"m always confused by women who say giving head 'takes too long'. Giving a man that sort of pleasure should be a pleasure (yes even with a sore neck, tired mouth - been there done that so many times). Surely stretching out the pleasure for your man, teasing him mercilessly without letting him cum is awesome for him, and should give his lady a feeling of achievement as well.

[lowprofile]

meaning??

what is the meaning of "giving head" and "going down"????

are they synonyms for oral sex ??

or they are some steps in performing oral sex??
can anybody tell me....sorry if u feel that I am dump!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[PJhavinfunagain]

I like sitting on the couch with him standing. I wait there for him to get out of the shower and as he walks by gently guide him to me, then surprise him. He likes the surprise bj's. He gets into it and likes to thrust a bit.

[PJhavinfunagain]

what is the meaning of "giving head" and "going down"????

are they synonyms for oral sex ??

or they are some steps in performing oral sex??
can anybody tell me....sorry if u feel that I am dump!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

"Giving head" means giving a man oral sex

"Going down" can mean giving oral sex to a man or woman.

so yes is the answer to your question...

[mylo99]

Let him take control

If your neck gets tired while giving him head, I suggest you try letting him do all the work. Obviously he would be playing a very dominant role. If you're not into being a submissive, even for part of the love-making session, read no further.

Once it is established how deep you can take his penis without gagging, then he should be aware of that depth, and make sure he does not exceed it.

My wife and I like for me to straddle her face (and pin her wrists down above her head). In this position I simply have sex with her mouth. I know this very dominating on my part, but we really get off on this.

Another position we (also very dominant for me) is for her on her knees while I'm holding her by her hair or the back of her head. She doesn't really need to do anything except keep her mouth open. Somethimes I put her hands behind her back. Sometimes she puts on her night mask (essentially a blindfold). This gets us going.

The point I'm trying to make is that, if he's doing the work, your neck should not be stressed as much as otherwise.

Don't worry ladies, I certainly do a variety of submissive things for her as well.

[Guest]

sarahlee20,

I have it from every conceivable position and they're all good. What is most important is that you're in a comfortable position.

My ex-girlfriend loves to give head. Sometimes I tease her that she's the head expert or head encyclopedia. She loves it. One position she likes is keeling on the floor with her butt on her heels and with me in front of her. After she has me in her mouth and she's completely comfortable, I'll hold her head steady and slowly thrust in-and-out of her mouth as though I'm effing her mouth. Sometimes she'll modify what I'm doing by using her hands to slow the pace of my thrusts. I usually come very quickly this way. She has had a lot of experience giving head and I think she likes this way the best.

How long it takes for a man to cum is up to him. Men are visual & they love to watch their wives/girlfriends giving them head, so if you'll position yourself so he get's a great view, it will probably help him cum sooner. Also, use your hands to massage his scrotum and base of his penis. Stroke his **** and make lots of noise as though you're loving it. If you get tired, take his **** out of your mouth and jack him off for a while with a lot of attention to the head of his **** and then put it back in your mouth. If you don't want to swallow, when he's ready to cum take it out and jack him off. But be careful. You might find cum in your hair.