[Guest]

(tiffany76)Ok,,,,thank you so much for your feedback on this Skywatch. It was more honest and non spareing than the last feedback to a guys feelings if they read this.

Thank you so very much for saying that. Objectivity should matter, but too much of it is often frowned upon in forums as not 'community friendly', not to mention political correctness mindset is unfortunately taking over. I'll soon wear out my welcome, no matter that I try to provide explanation and support my posts more so than most do.

[Curious4]

I think it would be better if you're honest with him and tell him the truth, that he just doesn't measure up. It would only him that much worse if he were to find out later.

[Hopeless Dork]

I think it would be better if you're honest with him and tell him the truth, that he just doesn't measure up. It would only him that much worse if he were to find out later.

They've been married 15 years, how could finding out at this point that you don't "measure up" hurt any less being said today or next week. I don't think it needs to be said, in my opinion.

Tiffany says her husband is 5 inches in length. That is the size of the average penis. He isn't lacking. He is normal. Vagina's tend to run about 3-5 inches in length.... 5 inches would measure up for just about anyone. I think wanting something bigger than that is more of a mental stimulant than a physical one.

[tiffany76]

Just a up date of what happen and in need of guidence

Ok it's ben like a week so this is what took place. To protect my friend's name I'll call her (jenn). The summer berfore the split up we was at a friends party and later we got into a hot tub. My hubby was sitting in the tub with water obove his waist. jenn is verry pretty, I know it was'nt on purpose but she stood up and turned around and bent over at the hips to check who called her phone. My hubby got realy hard cuz it was in our faces for like 10secs I turned around and said "ascuse me" and he said I'm sorry I dont know what to say.

I went to jenn's house this last weekend when she got home from work and ask for a favor. After explaining what I experenced for the first time with a nother man and explained what she did last summer and my hubby's reaction. She said if you think this is your way of making up to him and getting what you want also than I'll help. So she gave me her panteys she had on all day I planned on throwing it in the mix that night.

I pulled both the toys out and he was shocked and said ok that looks nice but dont you think your toy is to big when I knew it was perfect for me. But I told him you dont have to make all of it fit. So he put on his favorate porn I said let me milk your prostate and he started wimper with pleasure then I pulled out jenn's panteys and I put the cotton croch up to his nose. he exploted with amotion I've never saw before.

He was more than happy to put the cyberskin strap on on. So i got in the pisition doggy style that I peaked with the last time, It felt so real I was having flash backs of that man. After a few minutes I was ready and said go all the way and dont stop thrusting plz. Caught up in the moment not thinking I said " Thats the feeling I like". He called me on it and said I thought you just bought this a few hours ago. I had to think fast and say hun I'm just caught up in moment plz keep going and he did. And then it happened again, the earth shattering peak and a big mess. Laying there still shaking and not in the right state of mind I said " I love it when that happens".

He knew something was up and said you've never done that before, is there something you want to tell me cuz I know you well and your not telling me something so dont lie to me. So I told him and he was crushed more then I've ever saw him. I told him I would never do it again and I'm just trying to make up for it and I'll keep making up to him for the rest of his life. And that I did'nt love the guy but I learned something new about my body and want it every time. He said he needed time to think about this and he still held me all confused. After a moment he said its not fair cuz you let someone do that to you so I want to have a three way.

I asked will this make you happy so we can start over and he said things wont be the same but I feel it's only fiare. This last friday I asked jenn if she could do me a huge favor and explained everything that took place and she said yes but only this one time. Jenn told me she was on birth control so dont worry if he finnishes. So last night we did it and everything went realy good a couple of times but never with me, just jenn. I geuss I had it coming cuz when jenn left I asked are you happy? He said yes cuz jenn felt three times tighter than you and better than that molded toy. That realy hurt me but I told him can we move on now cuz I love only you and dont ever want to plit up again. He yes we can but for now on plz tell me what you want and vise versa and we should be fine. He gave me a kiss and I could still smell her on him and asked plz wash her off. I think we are going to be okay now. I need some input about what took place and what should I look out for?

[Hopeless Dork]

If that really happened, tiffany.... I don't think there is much to say. You made choices, he made choices. You both hurt each other, you both seem to enjoy others more than each other... and prefer to have sex with each other not only fantasizing about others but trying to recreate sensations others can provide. If you are happy facilitating this, if he is happy doing the same , if you both can go to bed at night feeling good about each other, thats no ones business but your own.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

This reads like an erotica book of sorts.

I don't understand how you felt he would be crushed, if he ever found out and then his reaction was a threeway and everything is fine. Or, I guess that he watches porn but has never wanted a three some, or asked, or hinted..

Strange world...

In any event, your thread keeps turning but I guess now that you've had an experience with another man larger, then the toys with your husband, then a woman with him, and now things can't go back where they were but be honest with him, is his answer/reaction after 15 years "tell him what you want and it will be fine?". You have your answer.

So I suspect the next line of thoughts here is only on relationships, trust issues, as you've answered your own questions on size, feeling the depth and how to accomplish this with toys now.

We wish you the best of luck in re-gaining your marriage in the manner in which you wish it to be.

As, your questions have now been answered pertaining to orgasms..and as this thread may attract "trolls"...

Thread closed.

CW