[Ieshia]

i don't think i could ever...just me though

Does it make a difference if the girl is not your girlfriend/wife/fiancee but just a friend?

[Ieshia]

We were actually living together. The guy lived downstairs. It was a 3 apartment house he owned.

I knew it was a fantasy of hers and I knew he was the one she wanted to do it with. Her and I discussed it but not with him directly. Didn't really have to, he was the type of person that could be trusted implicitedly without really having to say anything.

It kind of just happened one nite. The only rule was that she would direct things. Personally I think it was weider for him than for us. It wasn't the first time he'd seen us naked or even having sex for that matter. He would walk in occaisonally and it wasn't a big deal for some odd reason.

We stayed friends for a great many years after that. It wasn't talked about though. It was for her satisfaction more than anything else.

Were you turned on by the idea at all though?
I'm guessing you have no gay tendency and wanted no contact with the other guy, but were you still turned on by the fact that you were giving the girl so much pleasure.

[Ieshia]

Erm, do you have saunas where you live?

I was in a sauna with two more people and things got sexual.

I was with two girls, my friends. One of them started masturbating and well, me and the other girl followed.

No, i don't know about any around here. I'm just interested in two men and me being the only girl in the picture. I don't want any female contact at all.

[Ieshia]

I:
Havn 2 guys at once is also a fantesy of mine, tho have never done it. Guess I'm afraid the reality wouldn't be as good as imagination. On the other hand....

I think I'd have to be really trusting of the guys, have to know them as good friends in order to enjoy the play. For their part, they would have to be realy realy comfortable w/ each other and w/ being in a sexual situation w/ another guy. Guess, for my part, it would have to be a very close 3 people in order for all to enjoy things.

Please pass along if you try this out and how things worked. You've got me thinking

For me, i would just like two men who i'm really attracted to, and them all over me. Of course the two guys will have to be really comfortable with the situation though.
I would either like me to be laying down and one guy going down on me and the other facing me and just all over me, and then one goes inside me and both just kissing me all over and after that one gets done then the other gets on top and takes care of business.
If not that then one guy lays down and i could give him head and the other guy can be behind me and try it doggystyle after he gets done then i can just crawl towards the guy laying down and have the fun with him.

I just don't know how to bring this up to the two guys i have in mind.

[kerry-]

Personally I could never, would be way to weird for me. But I'd say bring it up while you're all drunk lol that way it can seem light hearted and having a laugh but may progress into something if they aren't totally freaked out!

[Ieshia]

Personally I could never, would be way to weird for me. But I'd say bring it up while you're all drunk lol that way it can seem light hearted and having a laugh but may progress into something if they aren't totally freaked out!

haha perfect
You can always blame it on the alcohol. Plus being drunk will calm everyone's nerves so there's no anxiety about the situation.

[kerry-]

haha perfect
You can always blame it on the alcohol. Plus being drunk will calm everyone's nerves so there's no anxiety about the situation.

Yup! See the devils juice is sometimes beneficial lol

[LilahX]

Ok, an exxperienced swinger here who has had many threesomes with her man, both fmf and mfm. My one experience that is similar to yours is my b/f had a guy sharingt his apartment and we 'seduced' him. He knew about our lifestyle and we envetually asked him to join us in a 3some - and it was great. He knew it was 'just sex', a bit of fun. It didn't change our friendship with him at all and it didn't automatically mean he expected it all the time. I think we only ever had two or three 'liaisons' with him.

When there is a gender imbalance then yes it does make sense to make the 'odd one out' the centre of attention (unles sthe guys are bi of course) but the main thing is to make sure no one feels 'left out'. Also the guys have to be ok about being naked and up close together. If they are the slightest bit apprehensive about that then it won't be a good experience as they'll be worrying about 'oh what if I accidentally touch him' or visa versa and not be giving their sole attention to the matters at hand. A mfm isn't every guys cup of tea so I'd try and suss them out beforehand as to how they might take such a suggestion before dropping the big question on them.

From a woman who's had the attentions of two guys at once on more than one occasion - I wish you good luck and if it goes ahead I hope you enjoy!!

[mylo99]

Not with guys who know each other

An MFM 3some is my greatest sexual fantasy. I've never had the pleasure. But I would never do it with a guy I know. A big part of the fantasy is to give the woman head while the other guy is entering her. I know that's essentially a bisexual act, but I'm bicurious. Licking her at the other end while they're doing it is also a part of my fantasy. I simply can't have my tongue on the penis of any friend of mine.

[alicat]

definitely not for me as i don't share well