[mr.mansview]

definitely not for me as i don't share well

agreed and well said..i believe a couple or individual looking for a threesome are having problems keeping the spark between the 2 of them alive

[stressed]

agreed and well said..i believe a couple or individual looking for a threesome are having problems keeping the spark between the 2 of them alive

I also agree with both.

[Hopeless Dork]

The idea of having an actual threesome does not appeal to me. I never have even fantasies about sharing my man with another woman.. in fact the thought of it is a huge turn off. I've had fantasies in the past of what it would feel like to have 2 men pleasuring me , but they were fantasies... along with dozens of other fantasies, never a primary focus and never something id EVER want in real life.

To each their own on that one. I'm glad its not one of my boyfriends fantasies to have a threesome. I know some guys will say ALL guys would want that... but I believe him when he tells me it just doesn't appeal to him.

Most people I have heard speak about threesomes say if you are into them its best to do them as a singleton, being the third party or being with 2 other singles. Some couples manage to seperate sex from love and can thrive, but for many others -- someone gets hurt.

[Ieshia]

An MFM 3some is my greatest sexual fantasy. I've never had the pleasure. But I would never do it with a guy I know. A big part of the fantasy is to give the woman head while the other guy is entering her. I know that's essentially a bisexual act, but I'm bicurious. Licking her at the other end while they're doing it is also a part of my fantasy. I simply can't have my tongue on the penis of any friend of mine.

God, I sure hope these two guys think the way you do.

[Ieshia]

The idea of having an actual threesome does not appeal to me. I never have even fantasies about sharing my man with another woman.. in fact the thought of it is a huge turn off. I've had fantasies in the past of what it would feel like to have 2 men pleasuring me , but they were fantasies... along with dozens of other fantasies, never a primary focus and never something id EVER want in real life.

To each their own on that one. I'm glad its not one of my boyfriends fantasies to have a threesome. I know some guys will say ALL guys would want that... but I believe him when he tells me it just doesn't appeal to him.

Most people I have heard speak about threesomes say if you are into them its best to do them as a singleton, being the third party or being with 2 other singles. Some couples manage to seperate sex from love and can thrive, but for many others -- someone gets hurt.

I couldn't do a FMF threesome, because of the reason you stated.
The MFM is a fantasy i want to live out.
I'm not dating either of the guys so it's not like this could possibly ruin a relationship.

[luvsonly1]

In my past I have had 3-some (both mfm and fmf) and a 4-some (mfmf). I was center of attention all times and it was great. At this point in my life (married now and hubby not into anything like that) I would not want to experience it again..but it was fun when it happened back then.

[stressed]

I know some guys will say ALL guys would want that... but I believe him when he tells me it just doesn't appeal to him.

Oh yes, most men would say they like the idea, but if they were asked they'd back out (I know such actual examples). Plus, even if your SO admits, in a jokingly way, that it's something that 'sounds good but only in theory', if you suggest a MFM and he's in love with you, he'd never agree to it. They dread the thought of another man pleasing us right in front of their eyes.
That's only the most common point of view, of course there are exceptions.

I have to admit though, I do find the MFM idea an interesting fantasy, but it's something I'd never try, not with my SO and certainly not with any strangers. I'd never be able to have a serious relationship with him after a threesome even if he'd agree to it (and he's against it in practice). I think some things work better as a fantasy than in reality.