[Joey]

The fact that an individual would somehow equate a man using porn to a female using sex toys escapes me. There are some crazy people that seem to think that these two subjects go hand in hand, lol.

Just joking.

Until the porn interferes with his performance, or the vibrator interferes with yours...I'd say leave it alone. Like you mentioned, you aren't even sure he DOES watch porn in the first place.

On the other hand, if this ever surfaces, you don't have much of a leg to stand on. Can't really get mad at him for having fantasies when you have your own, ya know?

It's good of you to recognize these complicated situations within your relationship. But, if it ain't broke, probably not worth fixing.

Good luck to you both.

Thank you for you response, and i know what you mean - I cant get arsey with him if im doing the same thing - although i just cant help feeling hurt by it. its such a weird feeling and its totally freaked me out as im being totally two faced - but just feel that he has no right in doing it! ha! I sound like a raving lunitic! ha!

But yeah, you are right - i really have no actual evidence that he does it, and i suppose in a way that he is doing me a favour by keeping it a secret even if he did do it. which i dont really know if thats a good thing or bad thing.

OHHHH! i never use to worry about this before! its doing my nut in! I think it all just stems to the fact that i have never in my life felt this loved and in love with a guy. He is the one for me - i suppose its the fact that i would hate to know that he does something that I find really hurtful.