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  • oxy-moron
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2010
    • 551

    Originally posted by WildChild
    Hmmm do I notice a trend here? We more mature types don't mind the so called mess, while the younger ones do?
    I agree about the age thing -or maybe its having had children as well.

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    • Caregirl
      Member
      • Feb 2011
      • 33

      Personally I love the post-orgasm sleeping in each others arms... I cant imagine getting up and changing sheets/showering etc. then trying to get relaxed enough to have that perfect sleep. Meh, too much effort

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      • waya
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2010
        • 206

        Agreed

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        • Tod121
          Senior Member
          • Feb 2011
          • 125

          I think its not all together pleasent coming in contact with wet sheets afterwards BUT we have never worried about where it goes and have never cleaned up afterwards if we have been on/in bed, the sofa on the other hand is very different, typically my wife will gather her things and go upstairs leaving me to mop up.

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          • thepandabear
            Junior Member
            • Apr 2011
            • 5

            Yep, pretty much same thing here. He just comes, usually on me, and sometimes a few drops get on the sheets. It's no biggie as we wash our sheets regularly. Even after having sex everyday, the sheets don't really get messy. We just keep paper towels (or baby wipes) nearby to clean up with

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            • chuggy
              Junior Member
              • Mar 2011
              • 2

              As for us, we don't usually put our minds on it. He uses his undergarment to wipe off, though sometimes i offer my undies as well. the few drops on the sheets is left to dry off and then washed during the weekend. I suggest you try not to put your mind on it so that it wouldn't distract you during lovemaking.

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              • Jim60
                Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 60

                We keep a roll of toilet tissue by the bed. If I've cum inside her she puts a wad betreen her legs, if I've ejaculated onto her body I wipe her off with the same, or if it's on the sheets. The worst mess seems to be when she has given me a HJ, she usually rinses her hands in the bathroom when I have finished and leaves me to mop up what is on me, unless she is feeling extra kind when she does it for me which I find very sexy. But we don't stress if theres no tissue, we just cuddle up in our own sticky mess, it soon dries up no problem.

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                • feliciacarpenter
                  Junior Member
                  • Apr 2011
                  • 5

                  I'm definitely a towel girl, sometimes we can get by without one, but for all the times we've laid down on a big wet spot, it's convinced me a towel is always a good choice.

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                  • pdq
                    Junior Member
                    • Apr 2011
                    • 4

                    For us this is pretty easy. We keep a towel handy. We either use a night gown - where my Wife likes to wear panties that provide for access - string bikinis, high cut or flutter types that are not binding on her or me. Sometimes we use a teddy that we can either unsnap or shift over to one side. I like ejaculating inside of her and I stay in her for a while before withdrawing. The panties or teddy usually contain the semen and if she is wearing panties she generally enjoys wearing them for the balance of the day before changing. We almost never get any on her nightgown but they wash well particularly in front load machines and so doing three or four outfits per week in a separate load for her lingerie is not a big imposition on me. I am the lucky guy - I get to see her wear it.

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