[natural101]

mix it up!

We use another sheet lol...we keep it in our drawer next to the bed and lay it out right before, to us it's not clinical because we both know the routine. We also use Swipes Lovin Wipes( better than baby wipes)to clean up after and we're good to go!

[Mr. Inquisitive]

Messy sex is so fun, especially when you don't know where your "shot" will end up. I mean I always aim but sometimes the force is uncontrollable.

We try to keep the mess on each other to avoid having to sleep in wet spots but unless it gets on the pillow case we just do the dry and weekly wash thing. The pillw case is a situation that needs to be remedied immediately.

[caster]

Support Women's lib, make him sleep on the wet spot.

Actually we keep hand towels in the nightstand. Once I move off I'll hand her one and she'll put it between her legs while we lay there. Given that I'll continue dribbling for awhile I'll sometimes grab one as well.

My favorite, although more rare as I get older, is for her to try and keep it inside until I can recover for round two. Now that's some good messy sex, but usually requires a sheet change and shower afterward.

[jns]

Nothing to worry about. There have been many methods described and there are many more.

[brunettebabe]

I use the towel method. Hubby and I use two towels. When we first start doing it the towels are sitting on the side of the bed out of the way because we mostly concentrate on my orgasms. I ususally get on top because that is my favorite position to have my orgasms. I nomally come one or two times before we change positions so we can work on my hubby's orgasm. When we change that's when the towels come into play. Hubby and I do a 180 where he is on top because he likes his that way, but before we do the 180 I put a towel under my butt for the semen when he ejaculates. Its not weird having a towel under my butt for a short time while I let him work it so he can come. Once he is done he uses the second towel for the rest of the fluid that might come out and for any leakage. We then shower, put clean clothes on, and change the sheets no matter if anything got on it or not.

[WildChild]

Hmmm do I notice a trend here? We more mature types don't mind the so called mess, while the younger ones do?
I have been known to rub it on myself and to laugh when I stand and it runs down my legs, I just don't see what all the fuss is. Yeah wipe up the wet spot, it'll dry and its a little cold sometimes if you land in it - so what? I don't have the time or inclination to change sheets everytime we have sex, good grief, I'd be changing sheets several times a week. Nor will I hop into the shower just because we had sex, who knows, there may be seconds. Why spoil the mood? I'd much rather lay in bed and chat, snuggle, play, doze. The last thing I want to do after sex, is jump up and start cleaning anything.

[AZ Guy]

Hmmm do I notice a trend here? We more mature types don't mind the so called mess, while the younger ones do?

I think that is a direct result of how sex is portrayed on TV and in movies....it's always (well, usually) portrayed as this glamorous, romantic, clean, perfect thing.....

When in reality it's erotic, dirty, and messy......at least if you're doing it right

[Hopeless Dork]

I don't get all the concern either. I actually squirt about a teaspoon of fluid when I cum... and sometimes it just trickles between my legs... my boyfriend ejaculates A LOT... but on to my body. He comes down and holds me... we lay for a while, he always offers a towel, I rarely accept. after a few moments it sort of dries on me, or sticks to me in a way that doesn't make a mess anywhere on the bed... I get up and wash off and done and done... there is no need for our sheets changed, or towels under us... but to each their own

[Rediscovered]

From my "mature person" perspective, lol~

Since my sweet lover and I mostly see each other on weekends, I normally put clean sheets on the bed in anticipation of his arrival and then don't mind sleeping on them at all during the following week. He also leaves his underwear here for me to smell all week (and then I wash them with the sheets, ha!), so I'm not really grossed out by much when it comes to his/our body fluids/smells. TMI, I'm sure~~sorry!

[alicat]

there is no way I'm going to wash sheets that often! although, if company is expected and we've been busy I'll spray the bed down with febreeze, light a couple of candles and pray that the smell isn't too noticeable...but then again if it is noticeable...so what