[rach]

Last night I lost my virginity. I like that I lost my virginity but i don't feel any different. Should I? We had sex in the shower and on his room but he didn't cum and neither did I we had sex for two hours. Is there anything that I can do to make our sex life better i'm not his first and it's fine I just want to have a hot sex life. For all you people who know what your doing can you help please thank you very much

[xxstarzxxrockxx]

Congrats! How old are you, sweetie? Um, have you given him a hand job? Have you licked his balls? That usually makes the guy cum. And have you been on top? That can sometimes make the woman cum, or having him eat you out could, too. Two hours, huh? I went for five hours my first time, and everybody's like, "WTF?! Seriously?!", lol! I don't even know how I went that long, but I came home, feeling like I'd been hit by a truck. So, maybe, not such a good idea, lol! Oh, and does watching a guy masturbate do it for you? That might spice things up.

[rach]

I'm 16 and yeah he told me that he lasts a long time i wabt something that's kinky and hot.

[Joey]

Congrats! How old are you, sweetie? Um, have you given him a hand job? Have you licked his balls? That usually makes the guy cum. And have you been on top? That can sometimes make the woman cum, or having him eat you out could, too. Two hours, huh? I went for five hours my first time, and everybody's like, "WTF?! Seriously?!", lol! I don't even know how I went that long, but I came home, feeling like I'd been hit by a truck. So, maybe, not such a good idea, lol! Oh, and does watching a guy masturbate do it for you? That might spice things up.

5 HOURS!!! blimey! thats amazing! i went for about 15 mins?? if that on my first time! (it did really hurt..... so i just blame it on that )

I agree with Starz, hand jobs, oral, licking etc etc are good ways to start up the excitment in the bedroom. but dont worry, you have only just lost your virginity! so dont expect things to be perfect. x

[xxstarzxxrockxx]

Joey: Thanks? lol! It hasn't gone on that long, with the last two guys, though. Maybe things slow down as you get older, lol!

Kinky, like spanking, face slapping, rimming, shackles, screwing your man up the with a dildo? lol! Or like how do you mean?

[newhere808]

There are several reasons as to why the two of you didn't reach orgasm, on of the biggest being a mutual discomfort (first time is rarely perfect) that was preventing either of you from reaching that point. If you are interested in continuing sexual relations with the guy, give it some time, and try to just get wrapped up in the experience and enjoy it. As to why he didn't cum, i'm a little curious about a guy who can have sex with a virgin for two hours and doesn't reach orgasm, that's fairly odd, but then again I don't know everything so

[rach]

He said the reason is because he was worried about me. There was a lot of blood when he started and it was gross so we ended up in the shower which is a fantice of his but i couldn't tell I was on top a lot and I asked if he was enjoying it or if I wad good and he said that e was the one putting me back up there. So i'm taking that as a good thing

[Joey]

He said the reason is because he was worried about me. There was a lot of blood when he started and it was gross so we ended up in the shower which is a fantice of his but i couldn't tell I was on top a lot and I asked if he was enjoying it or if I wad good and he said that e was the one putting me back up there. So i'm taking that as a good thing

Blimey! how bigs the shower if you were on top of him?? thats impresive!! but on a more serious note, you really shouldnt be worrying how good you are, or 'am i doing it right' at this earlier stage. Just get into the roll of it first before you start panicking about it. I had normal 'missionary' sex for a while before i astarted becoming adventorous. I wanted my Vagina to atleast get to grips with a penis before i started absuing it. hmm....that really doesnt sound pleasent. ha! hope you know what i mean though

[WildChild]

First times are rarely an orgasmic fantasy and second times aren't usually either. Even sexually experienced couples may need a little to really get in tune with each other. Why not take it easy and give yourselves some time? Just because he isn't a virgin doesn't mean he really has any idea how to turn on a woman.

[Joey]

First times are rarely an orgasmic fantasy and second times aren't usually either.

couldnt agree more.