fiancé and i are virgins and will be having relations for the first time on our wedding night. just curious, how messy is it?
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I'm surprised your main concern is the mess. No worries, it's not too messy. Make sure you bring lube, it may really help.“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.†- William Arthur Ward -
Place some tissues within arms' reach beforehand. The thing I dislike about the whole thing is getting up afterwards to go to the bathroom and feeling myself DRIP along the way! AAAHHH!!
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1st time may be messy or not messy at all. One way or the other, its nothing to worry about. Messy generally accompanys great sex. Do keep in mind that this frequently leaves a wet spot and someone has to sleep in that wet spot! On your honeymoon there are several options. Position the potential wet spot so that neither of you has to sleep in it, position so that he has to sleep in it, get a room with 2 beds: one for sleeping and one for sex! Enjoy your 1st night!Comment
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hopefully it's very messy!
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it can be a little messy, bring lube and a tiny wash cloth for the side of the bed, so when you are done you can put the wash cloth down there and run to the bathroom for shower time! congrats on getting married, how special that you are both virgins AWW
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Hey sweets. I thought you meant as far as you hymen breaking. Either way, it all depends on the people.
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Paper towels!Comment
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You can always take a shower together before heading to the bed. Or a bath. You may not have to worry about a messy bed. Otherwise, it might be good to use some soft towels.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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