The only articles I've seen recently on pleasing women were on WebMD, and they offered helpful hints like "Do the dishes," or "Fix her favorite meal," as means of getthing her in the mood.
Meanwhile, I think if you care about someone, and you care about her pleasure, you'd simply ask, and I don't mean "Was it good for you?" but more useful questions like, "What can I do to please you?" or even, "Show me how you would do it?"
I've learned some very nice, very useful things that way, since to me sex isn't sex unless it pleases us both; if only I enjoy it, that's just masturbation with another person.
- TR
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