[Fatin]

Well we live in the Middle East me and him in the same city but and we basicly been one year and we started to sleep together since the new year and i am extremely happy with him THANK GOD ..

[WildChild]

Watch your step dear. Where you live you are playing with fire but I expect you know that. Rubbing his penis against your clitorus and labia can be very pleasurable but as CW pointed out the pre-cum (that bit of wettness he gets) can get you pregnant. You don't want to be a pregnant virgin and it can happen. I don't know exactly where you are but I know in much of the middle east condoms are not readily available for purchase, at least not by unmarried people. If you can't get condoms to use Every time, you had better both stick with using your hands and tongues.

[Fatin]

LOL WildChild well here condoms are in everywhere and its so cheap so the condoms thingy is solved so don't worry

[rcoreyus]

Condoms do fail. Depending on your culture, and accidental pregnancy could be a life-ruining mistake. (in some parts of the world life-threatening). You can have a lot of fun with hands and mouth - I'd really avoid sex if I were you.

[jns]

Fatin, you sound so sweet. Please don't forget about the rules of the country you live in. In some countries they are very strict. If your boyfriend is the one you want to be with and you are the one he wants to be with, and the marriage is acceptable to your families, you should tie the knot and keep from having problems. If you are just exploring, be very, very careful and very, very discreet.

[Fatin]

awwwwh* jns thank u sooo much .. but yeah thats what will happen i hope .. but its true that there are some countries that are soo strict but ours is just not that strict and alot of girls lost thier virginity im telling u .. but yes we are careful

[Fatin]

coz im not sure if i would like the mouth idea coz i am very selfish girl and i relized that i love sex and im not a shame to say it so if he is having fun i want to have fun as well ..

[jns]

When rc said hands and mouth, it means both ways. Has your bf got you going with his hands or his mouth? Women can have as much, if not more, fun than men - even when limiting it to no penetration.

[Fatin]

hum-mm yeah he sometimes put his hand on my ... but he didnt use his mouth