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  • Mark1973
    Member
    • Mar 2010
    • 26

    Ben Wa balls for my wife

    I need advice on this one....Go or No-Go?
  • jeananne
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2010
    • 5

    I have them,many of my friends as well.A nice addition to the Toy Box.Why not ???

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    • LanaBear
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2009
      • 8373

      I have some, I like them, but I'd suggest talking to her about it first. She may get the wrong impression and think you are telling her "Gee, honey, let's tighten it up down there." Talk to her, see how open she is with the idea.

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      • Mark1973
        Member
        • Mar 2010
        • 26

        Originally posted by jeananne
        I have them,many of my friends as well.A nice addition to the Toy Box.Why not ???
        I have some, I like them, but I'd suggest talking to her about it first. She may get the wrong impression and think you are telling her "Gee, honey, let's tighten it up down there." Talk to her, see how open she is with the idea.
        Maybe I don't really know what they are????

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        • LanaBear
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2009
          • 8373

          They are popular for tightening the kegal muscles in the vag...

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          • Hopeless Dork
            Veteran Member
            • Dec 2008
            • 4255

            These things terrify me lol. I got a pair cause way cheaper than a kegalmaster... I put them in... squeeze squeeze squeeze.. and when I went to take them out I think I was so scared about not being able to (there were no strings) that I tightned up and I could not expel them. I could not fit a finger in to scoop them and I couldn't seem to push them out.

            I was totally freaking out coming up with what I was going to say at the ER lol.. but I calmed down, took some deep breaths, what goes up must come down ( I hoped)...lol.. and finally got them out of there.. I have not tried again since :P

            Next time only with strings..
            Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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            • alicat
              Member
              • Sep 2008
              • 77

              speaking from experience, if it's to tighten it up, start out small. if it's only to drive her wild so she jumps you as soon as you walk through the door then just go for it

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              • LanaBear
                Veteran Member
                • Jul 2009
                • 8373

                Originally posted by alicat
                speaking from experience, if it's to tighten it up, start out small.
                Really? Because everything I've read says to start bigger (not huge obviously), but bigger because they won't "drop" as easily. They say as your muscles get stronger/tighter, go to smaller ones. Smaller ones will more easily fall out if your muscles are not strong enough. That's what I've read anyways.

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                • kira
                  Veteran Member
                  • Feb 2008
                  • 986

                  Try smartballs by fun factory. They come with a string and in single or double where the 2 balls are attached. The double can be too long for some women. Aside from helping to strengthen muscles they can also give pleasure. The rolling of the balls inside the vagina while there's outside stimulation can actually bring me to orgasm.

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                  • LilahX
                    Veteran Member
                    • Jan 2010
                    • 291

                    A go for sure if you have an open and experimental r/ship. Hopefully you know her feeling on toys and accessories. If she's into trying new things, get some for her - and ask her to wear them when you go out somewhere. If you're not sure, sound her out first, not necessarily on the balls per se, but just on toys in general.

                    the key is commmunication and knowing your partner.

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