[Uneeklyme]

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Id also like to add this . If you ahd read my first post correctly, you will have seen that i stated i DID use a condom for anal sex removing it for vaginal sex . You have said it wont happen the action of anal sex however gently and using lubrication and condom the penis can still |"slip out" or it can just be difficult to get into that area however relaxed you are and with lubrication causing it just to push forward or sort of knock or smear around the entrance of the vagina EVEN when there is no there is no feaces visable on the caondom ie: the condom looks clean as it did when first put on! there is a transfere of bacteria from the bowel as no amount of washing externally assuming a woman did not go through the process of enema and even if she did the bacteria is still there in the bowel or the bacteria goes on the area of skin between the vagina and anal opening removing the condom of course is what most people would do assuming they were very careful about touching the OUTSIDE of it (transferring bacteria onto fingers) and then having vaginal sex the backteria will still be on the outside of the vaginal opening or just inside where it has collected with either lubrication or whatever fluid has been used or the natural vaginal lubrication has helped it enter . Of course six of penis matters here im 5 foot four and petite frame and have some difficulty getting the penis into the vagina if you have a man of 6 ft 4 plus and large built and penis that can be difficult to almost impossible to get that into a very small anal opening thus causing the slipping and wiping over the vaginal area in the two positions bending over and on side with legs drawn up ! so in actual fact it dosent matter if a condom is used as ive just explained it can still happen . Having sex vaginal sex only is not advisable around a period (without a condom ) as risk of infection greater chance of PID . But having vaginal sex and anal sex around a period is not advisable even with a tampon inserted , without of course huge risk and awful mess . Some women prefer to have sex at the time of period (orgasm reduces menstral cramps and some women feel highly aroused at that time others can feel very sick and ill but having sex during mensturation have been warned by experts DO NOT IT as even before menstration thecervix is beinning to open . All men carry a germ behind the foreskin no matter how much washing you do you wont get rid of that that germ is responsible for cases of cervical cancer and pre cancerous cells . The incidences of cervical cancer are very very low in Israel due to male curcumcision , not what we were discussing but i thought id add that . I am not Jewish i am Catholic but if i have a son , i have chosen to have my son curcumcised .

There is a chance of slipping. NEVER have vaginal sex with a tampon inserted...yes, you CAN "lose" them in there. They get pushed into the vagina out of your reach. Explain that one to an ER doc... why you didn't remove it before having sex and more men than not in the US are cicumcised so most men in the US do not have a foreskin to "carry a germ behind"

As for much of your last few posts...all I can say is...
**headdesk**
We will just have to agree to disagree even when we agree.

[lexi]

No niether did I ...where did i say that ??? i said you shouldnt be using the word generally to anyone (the word nut case ) do you understand THATS what i meant !! You made this post under my post and if you keep using the words SHE how is anyone supposed to know who you are referring to? . Apart from it being impolite, she, him , her ? and thats YOUR opinion you said only god gets to decide in the other post , thats very silly, GOD is not responsible for anyones actions . My brother is a Padre but i never ever use religion in any of my posts, thats why i would never say I believe Muslims do it ! thats why i thought why single these people out for religious reasons . So really you should look who you are posting under and include thier quote ...so people can understand . it just ndosent work when you come on and say ..YOU are crazy and only god decides...its got nothing to do with it . I posted as i said before to make WOMEN aware of the dangers having anal sex with a man . You obviously dont have any experience or perhaps you have with a man with a particularly small penis because as a woman you should of been able to understand some of the points i made. but then again perhaps you just need to be educated and a little older and wizer .

Unless you are also Housewife I was never writing to you. I never went out of my way to talk down to you so don't do it to me. Wiser has an s in it not a z and my ex boyfriend's penis isn't up for discussion.

[lexi]

And to clear up the confusion when I made the comment about someone being crazy I was talking about the user Housewife.. I was never calling anyone a housewife. And to clarify I didn't quote anyone because I gave the user name of the person I was talking about in my post and if people had read this whole thread instead of just the last few pages they would have known what and who I was referring to. But I am over it now so no big deal.

[Uneeklyme]

gotcha

And to clear up the confusion when I made the comment about someone being crazy I was talking about the user Housewife.. I was never calling anyone a housewife. And to clarify I didn't quote anyone because I gave the user name of the person I was talking about in my post and if people had read this whole thread instead of just the last few pages they would have known what and who I was referring to. But I am over it now so no big deal.

Hi lexi. I understood you were addressing the poster housewife and not PF. I used the word housewife for very different reasons one being that I am not convinced they are not one in the same with such similar posts, opinions and posting styles. Will just give them the benefit of the doubt and move on. I agree with the content of your post too.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I have a serious headache..................

USA/ENGLAND/MUSLIM/NON MUSLIM/JOB DESCRIPTIONS/NON UNDERSTANDING OF HOUSEWIFE/CAN HAVE/CAN'T HAVE/ NEVER BEEN RAPED/BEEN RAPED/HAD ANAL/AGAINST RELIGION - HELL ....

Well the only thing i can see if this was the case, is a split personality " in my opinion" otherwise, i just have a headache...

CW

[Private.Flangeamin]

I don't care if your Mary Magdaline. You get what you give.

You are incorrect my dear, so let me correct you if you would like to go to (outbound link cut by mod as outbound links are not allowed).You are incorrect you DO NOT have a cystoscopy EVER isf PID is suspected or indeed if you have it . That is generally given for finding out why there is blood in the water along with renal tract ultrasound and ivu xrays . SO THAT IS NOT A DIAGNOSTIC EXAM for PID .

I didn't say it was. You are the one that eluded to it. I simply stated it was not a pleasant proceedure. Along with other diagnostic tests.

The ONLY way you will find PID is laperoscopy or you you have the numerous symptoms .[/quote]
I do believe I already mentioned laparoscopy but it is not the ONLY way to test for PID. There is also ultrasound, blood tests, vaginal and cervical cell tests, pap tests and lets not forget culdocentesis to name a few.

I diagnosed MY OWN PID which the hospital congratualted me on as not EVEN a CT scan or MRI or abdo ultrasound or trans vaginal ultrasound found ..Trans vaginal is a way of finding that . SO YOU made no mention.[/quote]
I didn't go into all of the tests. There are so many different tests for so many different symptoms for so many different people. Not to mention that many tests and results break down into many other tests and results...

And you will see that along with cocaine use (i just added that but its quite correct dear) that provides a greater risk as well as anal sex which im quite correct . \I didnt have any "leakages as you put it " they thought before the PID was found i could of had cancer but i had chlamydia which can be in your throat and also the anus which i had . I DO NOT suffer from std so HOW DARE YIU suggest i do ..where did i mention that in these comments on anal sex ?[/quote]
I never said, suggested or otherwise that you do or did re: anal leakage or STD. However, just for the record... what do you think chlamydia is?

Im not answering any of your other comments as you have only made an Idiot out of yourself ,[/quote]
Oh to be so blissfully unaware.

just go to the site i mentioned. And WHY did you ask the question about MUslim men this is a WOMANS site and it was a discussion about anal sex with WOMEN !! |NOT muslim men why did you single them out ??? what business is it of yours ? byou should know that . Why are you discussing anal sex and men .. this is uncomfortably close to homophobia and you are bring religion into it. [/quote]
I asked the question as it pertained to earlier posts in the same thread. You would do well, my dear, to read the entire thread. It is a common perception in western society. Just because this sight is about women does not mean no men allowed. I personally welcome input from men. What better way to gain insight into what they are thinking and feeling than listening to what they are saying.

You carnt have had much of a life which i still dont believe you are in the medical proffession if you didnt know that . You certainly have NOT been working in a busy A and E department .. [/quote]
Your right. I don't work in the ER anymore. After six years I went on to be a flight nurse. When I became pregnant with my second child I could not fly at the time so I moved on to three days a week in an office for an OB/GYN and three days a week in a GP's office. Alternating weeks, 12 hour shifts just in case you want to say thats impossible as well

And you dont have to be over 40 for colonoscopy you can have it anytime[/quote]
Again, I never said you had to be. I did say it is recommended after 40 for EVERYONE as a preventative maintainance type of thing much like yearly pap smears and pelvic exams for women. You should really read what I say before commenting on it.

for minor things such a proctalgia - its common for women and men who have anal muscles in good shape (the ones you orgasm with) to experience proctalgia ... [/quote]
There is no diagnostic tool for proctalgia fugax (fleeting rectal pain) It is a conclusion often come to after most everything else has been ruled out.

Dont dare address me as HOUSEWIFE ...if i was a housewife i would be proud to be so ...as looking after children and taking care of everything else a woman has to do is a full time hard job ... DONT dare accuse me of having an STD i dont have an std .[/quote]
Don't address me as idiot. If your a housewife then be proud of that, I would be. Why is it so offensive to be addressed in that manner? At least I didn't get nasty and mean and snarky and call you an idiot or a spade.

You said in your post she is not gay , do you think we are ******, WHY as women would we say your wife is gay ...if anything it would be you id be thinking was bi sexual you would be gay and married ...i carnt be bothered talking to somebody who knows so little about female things , go to a male site and take a power trip on that ...[/quote]
HUH?[/quote]
Look - your obviously thick so agin il put this to you . YOU will undergo a colonoscopy IN BRITAIN (we are sensible here ) to investigate reasons of anal pain . I am over 40 years of age so its best that you get for facts right and READ my other posts which being as thick as you are you obviously havent . Im a single woman without children by choice so far . Carry on telling people to be having anal sex and when people come in work off your backside picking up the pieces giving them morphene as i had for getting sick ....I suggest if you are a woman and obviously a downtrodden one to spend a week wearing a strap on and giving it to your live in lover but dont forget he has to take the enemas ...AM well aware far more than you are about every STD out there ...As a nurse ???? realllly you are not evern aware of what the gay community are doing ...and are asking dumb questions DO MUSLIM MEN HAVE ANAL SEX !!! DURRRRRRRHHHHH !!! goodness me ! no wonder you dont work in A and E they through you out for being so thick . And i never have or will have sex with a tampom in where did you read that you ****** wench

[Private.Flangeamin]

There is a chance of slipping. NEVER have vaginal sex with a tampon inserted...yes, you CAN "lose" them in there. They get pushed into the vagina out of your reach. Explain that one to an ER doc... why you didn't remove it before having sex and more men than not in the US are cicumcised so most men in the US do not have a foreskin to "carry a germ behind"

As for much of your last few posts...all I can say is...
**headdesk**
We will just have to agree to disagree even when we agree.

An still being as thick as you are you are unprepared to accept Bacteroides SPP in relation to PID it speaks for itself how uneducated you are, just look on the net on that. |And NOBODY would want to bring thier elderly parents or anyone who was suffering from anything to be treated by such a woman with sick opinion of yes i agree with you lexi headcase ? is that what you call your patients behind thier backs ? your a disgrace . If you knwe anything you would know the penis is the place for the vagina you deserve to get problems and you will get them mark my words

[CHANDLERS WISH]

No niether did I ...where did i say that ??? i said you shouldnt be using the word generally to anyone (the word nut case ) do you understand THATS what i meant !! You made this post under my post and if you keep using the words SHE how is anyone supposed to know who you are referring to? . Apart from it being impolite, she, him , her ? and thats YOUR opinion you said only god gets to decide in the other post , thats very silly, GOD is not responsible for anyones actions . My brother is a Padre but i never ever use religion in any of my posts, thats why i would never say I believe Muslims do it ! thats why i thought why single these people out for religious reasons . So really you should look who you are posting under and include thier quote ...so people can understand . it just ndosent work when you come on and say ..YOU are crazy and only god decides...its got nothing to do with it . I posted as i said before to make WOMEN aware of the dangers having anal sex with a man . You obviously dont have any experience or perhaps you have with a man with a particularly small penis because as a woman you should of been able to understand some of the points i made. but then again perhaps you just need to be educated and a little older and wizer .

An still being as thick as you are you are unprepared to accept Bacteroides SPP in relation to PID it speaks for itself how uneducated you are, just look on the net on that. |And NOBODY would want to bring thier elderly parents or anyone who was suffering from anything to be treated by such a woman with sick opinion of yes i agree with you lexi headcase ? is that what you call your patients behind thier backs ? your a disgrace . If you knwe anything you would know the penis is the place for the vagina you deserve to get problems and you will get them mark my words

Mmm, PF, you do realise that there was a person called HOUSEWIFE and that Lexi was referring to HER, pertaining the "headcase" bit, and HOUSEWIFE, was dead against a penis being anywhere other than the vagina.... Now, i appreciate that you have been through an experience there, anal that is, but perhaps, read the whole 12 pages........ If i have to, so do you.

CW

[Private.Flangeamin]

I have a serious headache..................

USA/ENGLAND/MUSLIM/NON MUSLIM/JOB DESCRIPTIONS/NON UNDERSTANDING OF HOUSEWIFE/CAN HAVE/CAN'T HAVE/ NEVER BEEN RAPED/BEEN RAPED/HAD ANAL/AGAINST RELIGION - HELL ....

Well the only thing i can see if this was the case, is a split personality " in my opinion" otherwise, i just have a headache...

CW

I dont understand what your talking about here CW but the thread was about anal sex and women and does the butt get bigger NOT MUSLIM men ...for the record i have dated muslim men, jewish men, italian men, spanish men, french men, Irish men (hi garry ) welsh men you name it ive dated them . Her question was a disgrace ! now if it was do black guys do that ? there would be an uproar ...she has a problem and shes uneducated and offensive and i thank god for Britain at times like this

[Private.Flangeamin]

I dont understand what your talking about here CW but the thread was about anal sex and women and does the butt get bigger NOT MUSLIM men ...for the record i have dated muslim men, jewish men, italian men, spanish men, french men, Irish men (hi garry ) welsh men you name it ive dated them . Her question was a disgrace ! now if it was do black guys do that ? there would be an uproar ...she has a problem and shes uneducated and offensive and i thank god for Britain at times like this

And men from USA i should of said that first