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  • maverick
    Senior Member
    • Dec 2009
    • 130

    I've never had a partner that did not consider this physical abuse. And I certainly don't want my own butt slapped during sex. But there is a fine line between pleasure and pain and who doesn't like to cross that line every now and then?

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      It's very common in porn and done appropriately, with just the right timing, it can focus your attention and works very well. But that depends being able to read your partner pretty well.
      Amother thing I've never quite figured out the attraction of but they do it in porn, is a man pulling out and shaking his penis or tapping against the woman's thigh or butt, then going back at it. What purpose does that serve? Is it to delay ejaculation?

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      • Rediscovered
        Senior Member
        • Feb 2010
        • 118

        I've never had my butt slapped *during* sex, but sometimes when we're just lying there in the afterglow and I'm on top of him, I like him to slap my butt cheeks and I'm not sure why I like it--but I do. (he doesn't do it hard enough to hurt me)

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        • bowchicka
          Junior Member
          • Apr 2010
          • 6

          Originally posted by WildChild
          Amother thing I've never quite figured out the attraction of but they do it in porn, is a man pulling out and shaking his penis or tapping against the woman's thigh or butt, then going back at it. What purpose does that serve? Is it to delay ejaculation?
          I'm curious about that too.

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          • maverick
            Senior Member
            • Dec 2009
            • 130

            Originally posted by bowchicka
            I'm curious about that too.
            Showmanship. Just like the money shots.

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            • Little
              • Feb 2007
              • 4329

              During sex? Sure, and like to dole it out too.
              Outside of sex? NO NO NO leave my tail end alone. I had a boyfriend once who slapped me in the butt every time I stood up. It gets annoying fast.
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              • endymion
                Junior Member
                • Mar 2010
                • 6

                This was done to me lat weekend and it made me laugh. Maybe it was too lightly done to have the desired effect.

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                • Vixen
                  Member
                  • Apr 2010
                  • 33

                  When the timing is right I like it. I have a very changable mood, when rough I like bottom slapping, hair pulling, bitting. Other times I like everything to be gentle and slow to begin with anyway lol.

                  Its definately about mood and timing for me but when the mood and the time is right oh my it gets me.

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                  • sexybabe
                    Member
                    • Sep 2009
                    • 95

                    Totally HOT!

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                    • Beckers
                      Senior Member
                      • Jan 2009
                      • 132

                      I wasn't crazy about it until I found my current bf. I find that being in love with my partner makes everything sexy and hot. We slap each others butts all the time, even when we aren't having sex. We both like it a lot. =]





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