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  • Anon_1990
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2010
    • 359

    Yeah ive only ever cummed all over someones hand, or in a condom lol
    Happy and Taken!

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    • Rakastaja
      Member
      • Apr 2010
      • 19

      Anon: it is time to explore more then! I don't necessarily agree that it is a porn culture thing. (I am not from this country and have a very different culture). It's simpler than that I think: there is no assigned spot for cum !! (unless, you do want to have a baby of course )
      here is the way I see things: there is no such thing as a wonderful relationship after many years if sex is no longer in the picture: to the best, it is just a good friendship... and that's if you are lucky! which brings to the easy conclusion: a good sex life is a must in a good relationship.
      the question is: how to have (and keep) a wonderful sex life after many, many years of having sex with only the love of your life without feeling bored. My personal answer is: spice it up, keep it fresh, be creative and open minded....
      Many people spend hours on perfecting a hobby...me, I spend hours day dreaming on my next sex with my SO and what we can do, to both enjoy as much as we can
      only one thing left to do: find the right woman (if not already done), have plenty of communication and, hopefully you can... let it out anywhere and everywhere you want
      think of all the possibilities and places instead of you torturing yourself on the reasons why you want to do it
      Last edited by Rakastaja; 04-26-2010, 10:11 PM.

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      • Texinator
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 5556

        I like a good orgasm as much as the next guy but I'm actually more interested in her cumming all over me. The more the merrier, I say.

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        • Mes T
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 2678

          I wish my boyfriend would do this!! At least once! How do I initiate it? Halp!

          Question: Do you think there are any guys who would NOT want to do this?

          I think this is gross in general but somehow with this particular boyfriend, everything is just becoming really sexy. That's a good sign, I think?

          Originally posted by Tex
          I like a good orgasm as much as the next guy but I'm actually more interested in her cumming all over me. The more the merrier, I say.
          HOT.

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          • Texinator
            Veteran Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 5556

            Originally posted by Mes_T
            Question: Do you think there are any guys who would NOT want to do this?
            There might be a few who'll think it'd be degrading to you. But I reckon they're also generally the ones that think that having oral performed on them is degrading to the woman. So if he doesn't mind you playing with the sausage and beans then he should be alright with getting a bit of gravy on you.

            So the next time he gets close to an orgasm, just tell him 'Hey, I want you to cum on my (insert body part)'

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            • kscshell
              Member
              • Apr 2010
              • 13

              Vegetable oil isn't bad in a pinch..

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              • alterview
                Member
                • Oct 2009
                • 47

                good the hear...

                it is nice to read that some women are actually turned on by this. it seems like the the key to it is really being into your partner and being turned on by them being turned on. i love knowing when my lover is having an orgasm.

                i think that this has been a bit of a taboo and seen as something 'dirty'. solid open communication goes a long way to realizing many fantasies. in a loving relationship sex should be a very broad canvas or else it will get boring and possibly harm an otherwise good relationship.

                btw- leave the light on when possible! the affect is lost in the dark.

                cheers!

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                • Mes T
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2009
                  • 2678

                  Originally posted by alterview
                  btw- leave the light on when possible! the affect is lost in the dark.

                  cheers!
                  That's a good idea.

                  For some reason we're taught that having sex in the dark is the way to go.

                  Well personally I love getting a nice good look at my partner, and I think getting used to having light around helps to boost confidence.

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                  • alterview
                    Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 47

                    Mes_T-

                    dont forget to try and find time once in a while to have a great afternoon romp. we forget that sex doesnt have to be just in the evening before bed.

                    also, i would bet your SO would very much enjoy being asked to do this. you just need to to take matters in your own hands.

                    cheers and best of luck!

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                    • Texinator
                      Veteran Member
                      • Sep 2009
                      • 5556

                      Originally posted by Mes_T
                      For some reason we're taught that having sex in the dark is the way to go.
                      That's to shield your delicate eyes from all that naughtiness. Wouldn't want you to have any impure thoughts during sex.

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