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Anon: it is time to explore more then! I don't necessarily agree that it is a porn culture thing. (I am not from this country and have a very different culture). It's simpler than that I think: there is no assigned spot for cum !! (unless, you do want to have a baby of course
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here is the way I see things: there is no such thing as a wonderful relationship after many years if sex is no longer in the picture: to the best, it is just a good friendship... and that's if you are lucky! which brings to the easy conclusion: a good sex life is a must in a good relationship.
the question is: how to have (and keep) a wonderful sex life after many, many years of having sex with only the love of your life without feeling bored. My personal answer is: spice it up, keep it fresh, be creative and open minded....
Many people spend hours on perfecting a hobby...me, I spend hours day dreaming on my next sex with my SO and what we can do, to both enjoy as much as we can
only one thing left to do: find the right woman (if not already done), have plenty of communication and, hopefully you can... let it out anywhere and everywhere you want
think of all the possibilities and places instead of you torturing yourself on the reasons why you want to do it
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I wish my boyfriend would do this!! At least once! How do I initiate it?
Halp!
Question: Do you think there are any guys who would NOT want to do this?
I think this is gross in general but somehow with this particular boyfriend, everything is just becoming really sexy.
That's a good sign, I think?
HOT.
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There might be a few who'll think it'd be degrading to you. But I reckon they're also generally the ones that think that having oral performed on them is degrading to the woman. So if he doesn't mind you playing with the sausage and beans then he should be alright with getting a bit of gravy on you.
So the next time he gets close to an orgasm, just tell him 'Hey, I want you to cum on my (insert body part)'
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good the hear...
it is nice to read that some women are actually turned on by this. it seems like the the key to it is really being into your partner and being turned on by them being turned on. i love knowing when my lover
is having an orgasm.
i think that this has been a bit of a taboo and seen as something 'dirty'. solid open communication goes a long way to realizing many fantasies. in a loving relationship sex should be a very broad canvas or else it will get boring and possibly harm an otherwise good relationship.
btw- leave the light on when possible! the affect is lost in the dark.
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dont forget to try and find time once in a while to have a great afternoon romp. we forget that sex doesnt have to be just in the evening before bed.
also, i would bet your SO would very much enjoy being asked to do this. you just need to to take matters in your own hands.
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