[Ahryin]

I hate to sound like the masturbation police -- LOL....

Hope, I was on the floor dying laughing at the thought of you in a cop suit hading out citations! Gotta love it!


Why have you two chosen not to engage in full on intimacy?

Have you tried popping in a porno while servicing him? Men love "sound" the visual aid helps as well. Try interlocking your fingers over his shaft, keep your thumbs together and twist while coming up. You can do this with or without your mouth. I would also incorporate some sort of lubrication. The object is to create both a warm sensation and suction action. Good luck :0)

[Hopeless Dork]

LOL... it just seems in every thread that comes up lately I am like..... soo just how often is your guy diddling himself???!!!

Its just so manyyyyyy sexual problems for women in relationships seem to stem from the male masturbation epicenter!! Guys that can't ejaculate from vaginal because they strangle themselves in masturbation so can't recreate that sensation in sex... guys that say sorry honey i don't have a drive tonight but masturbate 4x a day... it just so often seems like a masturbation question is what to ask right off the bat when certain sexual issues arise... (or don't!)

[Texinator]

they all said that they found it difficult to cum when a girl gave them head or a hand job because they are use to their own 'rountine and style' when masterbating - and so it took them time to get use to different ways of making them cum when it wasnt sex.

Exactly. Men that masturbate lots and always use the same routine can inadvertently program themselves to orgasm only if they use that one technique.

It might be that they have to stand or sit, use a light touch or choke the life out of their penis, or do a handstand while wearing a pink tutu and singing Old McDonald.

So more variety in masturbation and probably less masturbation overall is the way to go. If he's got a ready and willing woman, he should be reserving his hands for her.

[Anon_1990]

I like how a girl uses her own method, it makes it more interesting. But If I know Im gonna get it, I hold it in for sometimes a week or so! So the results are pretty fast and messy

[Ahryin]

I will never understand why a man would choose masterbation over the real thing?...SMH...Never understand it

[Anon_1990]

I wouldnt!

[Texinator]

I will never understand why a man would choose masterbation over the real thing?...SMH...Never understand it

I don't either, and I'm a man! I think WH is actually the first time I've heard of guys that would rather go at it solo than have a woman involved. Then again, when men talk amongst themselves about sex, everybody's got more desire and stamina than a porn star, and if one of them is not getting any, it must be the woman's fault.

[Anon_1990]

I dont have a women! So, my hand is my women

[Ahryin]

Anon...you need to get yourself a toy before your hand grows fur..lol

[Anon_1990]

Lol, boys toys are always seen as a little "werid" like flesh lights