[Explorer44]

So, what is your definition of a tease, and is that a good thing or a negative thing? Do you enjoy being teased or at some point do you feel you want to act on the flirtations?

[shaunzie89]

I would prefer that if my man started to tease me, that he would act on the flirtations. Which he doesn't always do. Lol. Either way, its cute and I enjoy it. I tease him as well.

I don't think its a negative thing at all.

[cuff]

Teasing can be fun if it's understood between both people. But being a guy, long teasing can be a bad thing if taken too far and not allowed to come to fruition. Blue balls are painful!

[Beckers]

I really enjoy teasing my bf, but not to the extent of blue balls, I would never purposely put him in that situation.

Since he knows i love teasing him, i always hope he'd do it in return, but thats very rare =/

I think teasing a positive thing, as long as you know what you're doing and don't get your partner horny without following through. That's just mean.

[jns]

Cuff: agree with the blue balls being painful. Teasing is fun if the limits are known and agreed upon either explicitly or implicitly. Physical teasing can be used to enhance excitement. Mental teasing can used to help or cause one get turned on or define aspects of the relationship.

[Vixen]

I am a big tease. I like to physically and mentally tease until he cant take any more. I always tell him that he is not allowed to touch me at all until he really cannot wait a second longer. I tease away, he tries to touch me a couple of times and then when I know he is just bursting for me I give in and he gets total control. It really turns me on knowing how horny I can make him.

[Anon_1990]

blue Balls?

[Explorer44]

I think the men should explain that one, lol!

[PandaPaws]

I love teasing, and being teased - as long as we end up following through and getting it on!

[Texinator]

blue Balls?

Prolonged sexual arousal without ejaculation. Blood begins to pool around the testicles and the prostrate becomes congested, which can eventually lead to aches and pains.

I think the men should explain that one, lol!

Women have blue clit!

Anyway, my favorite kind of teasing is sorta like a cross between a striptease and Truth or Dare. I still enjoy it when a woman slowly takes off articles of clothing or if lets me have a quick peek or even just almost a peek before partially covering up again. Doesn't matter if it's my first time seeing her naked or my hundredth time. Stripping down in record time has its place, but I find it boring if that's always the protocol.