[Sunny81]

Hi everyone,
I was hoping someone- anyone- could help me with this rather embarassing question. Why does my boyfriend’s sperm taste so disgusting? I like my boyfriend and I love giving oral sex, but when I even think about it with him I want to gag. I’m running out of excuses to avoid going down on him- what’s up with him?

I don't want to hurt his feelings, but it's just not working! Help!

[WildChild]

Could be diet, meds. not enough water. Do a search on taste of ejaculate or sperm. There is tons of stuff. Some dedicated people have puts lots of energy into exploring and experiementing on this.

[samgreen]

I always find it's what my boyfriend eats or drinks, if he's had a few beers usually it tends to be bitter, same with eating a lot of meat. Fruits and vegatables and drinking wine are what i encourage if he wants me to go down on him!

[Hopeless Dork]

Well hydrated body, lots of citrus, and very good hygeine is going to give you the best oral experience on him.

My boyfriends taste is neutral, he drinks lots of water, eats lots of fruit and I service him FREQUENTLY.. he also has awesome hygiene that keeps me content to spend time lingering around the area in comfort.

If its just the ejaculate you cant tolerate, you can still go down on him (if you want to) and when you know hes close go to manual sex instead of oral and finish him off on your breasts... or on his own chest if you don't want in on you.

I'm sure he'd prefer partial head to no head at all.

[Guest]

Yes, I agree (again) with Hopeless Dork. Encourage him to eat/drink the correct materials and then it'll be more natural. But hey ladies, no caring man would put pressure on their lady to swallow his fluid. If you enjoy it, that's different. And, like I've posted on another matter here, it's nice and refreshing to hear women say that they don't mind or even like to swallow a guy's love juice. My g/f will give me oral but won't swallow. She'll pull away before I squirt. This I don't mind at all.

[shaunzie89]

Well always know that you don't have to do something you don't enjoy. Its your personal decision. I don't like the taste of sperm either. So, I guess its different for everyone, but its a decision you guys have to make.

[eleni]

its almost certainly something he's eating
also smoking can cause that too.

if its that disgusting just do it until he's just about to orgasm
and then finish him off with your hand
also you could try using the extra thin condoms.

x

[BasketCase]

I am not fond of it either. So what I usually do is start with oral, then before he can come I stop, give him a few mins to gather himself, during which time he can go down on me or something involving forplay that isn't to intense for him(want to avoid pre-mature ejac), then we have sex.

[needanswer99]

dear Sunny81===>it is unpleasant because it is not natural....simply an invention of porn culture...like anal.....
but yes!! it is too much in fashion.....and male, definitely ...never say no for such things.....it is we woman who can control their fantacies which we do not like.....so try to convince him by sometimes crying, sometimes becoming too much sad, or sometimes telling him truth that it is causing jaw pain, or recently it was published that it may cause mouth cancer because of papilloma virus etc etc ...and sometimes by telling him that "although I have given you Bj, but i did not feel good"...good luck

[Hopeless Dork]

it is we woman who can control their fantacies which we do not like.....so try to convince him by sometimes crying

I just think if you are wanting to have the kind of relationship where there is openness and honesty and communication, intimacy... that flat out rejecting something that is within the bounderies of fidelity and lacks physical or emotional pain is setting the pace for selfishness rather than togetherness.

I am not saying do something you don't want to do... I'm saying being in a relationship is about finding a middle ground and compromises.

To each their own on that, of course. Not saying all girls should like it and I know many don't and won't ever... but I just felt like your saying 'women control the fantasy' warrented some kind of response about how that type of attitude can be very detrimental to a relationship.... regaurdless of whether or not you perform oral. Its not the dislike of it or choosing not to do the act that is a detriment... but I think that pattern of thinking that one partner can control the other partners pleasure or lack of it... can only breed resentment and comtempt.

Also as far as it bein 'an invention of porn culture'....people were giving bj's long before the internets told us it was cool.