[SaharaJim]

What i am hearing is that you are not adverse to the act but that your boyfriend's ejaculate tastes BAD. Good reason to object! The "cure' is in his diet. Cut back on dark (delicious) red meats and get more citrus and vegs. in the diet. Pinapple is one of the best "cleaners". If he is "hooded" make sure he is maintaining good hygiene.
Sunny.....guys aren't "good" at picking up "subtle" cues....TELL him gently but BLUNTLY what the problem is and that there is an easy fix. If HE is unwilling to alter his diet to make himself "palatable" he sure as anything doesn't desearve YOUR generous efforts. IMHO.

[Guest]

Spot on SharaJim. Couldn't have put it better myself. But good hygiene doesn't depend on whether he has a foreskin or not. Even when circumcised you can still be smelly. There's no alternative to regular washing.I think that we all owe our partners the duty of keeping our genital areas as fresh and clean as possible. An earlier girlfriend of mine told me that if I keep my penis clean then there would be more chance that a partner would put it in her mouth. Seems to have worked so far. My penis has been swallowed by several partners since.

[PJhavinfunagain]

Diet and cleanliness are spot on! When DH is fresh from the shower I want nothing more than to wrap my lips around his member. Hmmm... I think it is time to go share a shower

[sourpuss]

To each their own on that, of course. Not saying all girls should like it and I know many don't and won't ever... but I just felt like your saying 'women control the fantasy' warrented some kind of response about how that type of attitude can be very detrimental to a relationship.... regaurdless of whether or not you perform oral. Its not the dislike of it or choosing not to do the act that is a detriment... but I think that pattern of thinking that one partner can control the other partners pleasure or lack of it... can only breed resentment and comtempt.

Also as far as it bein 'an invention of porn culture'....people were giving bj's long before the internets told us it was cool.

True dat sista!

[gloriasapo]

I think it is your duty as g/f to accept him and his semen. I always happy to do

[ItsASecret]

I think it is your duty as g/f to accept him and his semen. I always happy to do

There is no duty, if a woman does not want to do any act then she does not have to. Not everyone enjoys all things sexual.

[rcoreyus]

No one should feel forced to do something sexual that they don't want to do. No one should feel forced to stay in a relationship where they are not getting their sexual needs met.