[jns]

When I have had wet dreams, there has always been a physical stimulation factor whether it is rubbing the sheets or turned over rubbing the bed. He having an erection while asleep is a good start, but you have to figure out someway to direct his dreams.

There are other senses, but visual is out, he will have to dream that one. The sense of touch is there, you could engage his hands, or possibly his face. The sense of smell is there, maybe he gets turned on by your natural smell. Give him a whiff or more. Maybe also rub your privates lightly against his face and have his hands on the most favorite of your body parts. Even give him a taste. If you do it slowly and continuously enough, he may start thinking about sex, even when asleep and when he is not particularly gung ho for sex. Remember there are pheromones that will work on him. He will probably have to be in REM sleep.

[rcoreyus]

If someone is really tired they can fall asleep during sex - but we're talking truly exhausted.

I find it hard to imagine someone not waking up before they ejaculated - unless maybe if they were very drunk or stoned.

I don't think it was anything at all you did wrong (and you make me horribly jealous from your willingness to try so hard for him).

If he has gotten used to using his hand while you give him oral, maybe he has conditioned himself to only finish that way. (his loss)

This must be incredibly frustrating for you .

[LanaBear]

Geez, we've both fallen asleep, doing and receiving all sorts of things. We've even woken up the next morning and realized neither of us knows who fell asleep first. We just laugh about it, but we've been together for 15 years, so I guess everything is bound to happen and reoccur at some point.

[Guest]

I would say it's not possible, only when he has an involuntary wet dream. When my g/f stays I wake up with a huge erection but don't feel like sex. But I ask my g/f if she wants to use it before it goes to waste!! So she sits on top and gets her orgasm. But at that stage I can't ejaculate because my mind is not sufficiently stimulated to do so.
Sex for me is a lot to do with the mind as well. Hope this helps.

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[pittsburgh44]

why can't all females do cool things like you!!!!??? I would give ANYTHING to wake up to my fiance doing that to me! You ROCK!

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[shaunzie89]

This gives me a good idea. Something I may have to try one of these days!

I know how you feel though. My fiance falls asleep during stuff all the time. Even in the bedroom. He works pretty much 24/7 though, so I understand. ;p

[xxdanniixx]

well i would say its possible coz when a man dreams about sexy things he wakes up with an erection so if you try i reckon in the end he will get turned on prob be half a sleep an horny so maybe its do able hehe goodlook xxdanniixx

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