[pittsburgh44]

I have another thread started that I've been getting a lot of very good advice (and thank you all for that) but, I have a question that i was hoping to get some assistance from you guys with.

Have any of you heard of anything that remotely resembles a pill that would help suppress sexual desires? I am fully aware of all the normal things from "it's only temporary, maybe it's a sign to move on, etc, etc". That being said, if anybody knows of anything to do with this please let me know. Thanks a lot.

[brownlover]

Ya know... just this past weekend while at Wal-mart, i was looking in the vitamin isle and i saw a libido enhancer for him and her. Do you think should be willing to try taking it? Although it would be her admitting that she had a problem... so i'm not sure if you could convince her. I dont see any harm in slipping a few in her morning coffee though, since its natural suppliments!!

[Hopeless Dork]

Uhh chemical castration, what they give to sex offenders in some states... or actual castration -- dunno if they do that optionally though...

Think about what you're asking...are you serious?

[pittsburgh44]

Ya know... just this past weekend while at Wal-mart, i was looking in the vitamin isle and i saw a libido enhancer for him and her. Do you think should be willing to try taking it? Although it would be her admitting that she had a problem... so i'm not sure if you could convince her. I dont see any harm in slipping a few in her morning coffee though, since its natural suppliments!!

Haha, yeah, but I'd rather do what i can by myself. Thanks though. If you see anything to eliminate/mitigate it for me, please pass the info my way.

[Hopeless Dork]

If you have to chemically alter your body to find peace in this friendship based relationship... how happy can you really be? How much does she really love you if she would allow you to make such a huge sacrafice when she can just offer to be your friend instead of your wife.

Are you guys at least intimate? Do you make out? Kiss , Hold hands?

[pittsburgh44]

If you have to chemically alter your body to find peace in this friendship based relationship... how happy can you really be? How much does she really love you if she would allow you to make such a huge sacrafice when she can just offer to be your friend instead of your wife.

Are you guys at least intimate? Do you make out? Kiss , Hold hands?

yes, and yes...

I was just curious if it existed, because i thought it might be nice to not have to stress over everything for maybe a month or so, get a new perspective on things i guess.......... I know i should have a few things said about what i'm asking but not this time, just want to know if anybody knows about it...

[Hopeless Dork]

Yeah, chemical castration. Its something that kills sex drive, I think they take it in injections -- saw it on a tv show where a sex offender was ordered to take it, doubt its something people could get over the counter and what not.

Its about as extreme as a woman cutting her clit off though because her partner won't give her orgasms. Or marrying an anorexic and then wiring your jaw shut so that you can force yourself to starve along side them rather than trying to get them help to figure out why they are not eating?!

[Hopeless Dork]

I know you're not asking for advice on this here... but if you are even CONSIDERING such an extreme action, I'd suggest counseling might not be a bad idea for you too... I mean no disrespect in that... I just mean you might need professional help to think things through.

[pittsburgh44]

I know you're not asking for advice on this here... but if you are even CONSIDERING such an extreme action, I'd suggest counseling might not be a bad idea for you too... I mean no disrespect in that... I just mean you might need professional help to think things through.

lol...thanks and I like your analogy of wiring your jaw shut...

[StillLearnin]

He sounds desperately needy of this woman, and will do anything to keep her.
Considering chemical castration is messed up, man. You really need to see a counselor to work out your personal issues so you don't do anything drastic.