[silent girl]

hi guys,
ever since i heard about this i have been worried..cos i have this fear of peeing on my partner ..accidently ofcourse but what if i ejaculate and he thinks ive peed..omg..how embarrasing would that be
aghh im all worried and scared, now i dont want to have sex at all..
please, need advice or hugs..

[doodle89]

Okay we'll I'm not an expert on this but have experienced/experience it and it's nothing to worry about. I was the same way you were and for some reason the topic came up between me and my boyfriend and it turned out that he always wanted me to do it.. I felt gross about it and didn't think he was serious. Well, one thing led to another and it happened.. he loved it. You will get the feeling like you are going to pee, but it's not. You just need to relax when it's happening or want it to happen or you'll be too tense otherwise. Hope this helps!

[pittsburgh44]

masturbate with a dildo or something that'll simulate intercourse, might help you build up confidence that you won't #1 on him.........but hey, some guys like that (you'd be surprised how many)

[doodle89]

masturbate with a dildo or something that'll simulate intercourse, might help you build up confidence that you won't #1 on him.........but hey, some guys like that (you'd be surprised how many)

you made a good point.. try it out solo first using a dildo or something so that way you know what it's going to be like. and yes, apparently many guys enjoy this..

[LanaBear]

Not every woman can ejaculate. So, don't get all paranoid over the thought that you MIGHT do it when you don't want to, especially to the point that you are too nervous to have sex now.

Empty your bladder before sex, that way, if by chance you do unintentionally, then you can be rest assured that it isn't pee. If you are still paranoid about it, ask him what his thoughts are on it. If he says, it would be the hottest thing ever, well then, you have nothing to worry about if you did do it.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Out of curiousity how long have you been going out with "your partner"..

I think that alot has to be said about time...

A few weeks? A few months? How sexually knowledgeable is he?

CW

[biggalpal]

Talk to him, see how he feels about it. If it is a turn off to him then try not to do it. Although I can tell you that if you hold it back you are holding back your pleasure. the release is great, and honestly if your guy likes it, even if you would by chance forget to empty your bladder and you pee...he is not really going to mind unless he is down visiting you he is not going to know until after. Suggestions would be to make sure you always have wet guard of some type on the bed for protection. The pads wet pads that you have under you at the hospital would work well, or get the wet pads in the baby section they are washable and small to pull in and out of a drawer when needed...Good luck and enjoy, relax, let flow what will...