[Faerunner]

Mine only pops into play when I'm already really aroused. Any other time, it's just uncomfortable or 'not there' when I/my partner play. I guess it's always 'there', in the same location, but it doesn't do much for me unless I've already gotten pretty warmed up, and even then it's a tricky thing to bring myself to orgasm through g-spot stimulation. Some women can apparently do it pretty easily, but I've never met one!

[Princess414]

Hello all, very Newbie here...

I suppose that I am lucky that I had a previous partner who found my A spot once so I knew more or less where it was. I personally cannot reach it no matter how hard I try.

My boyfriend is pretty good and knows exactly where my g-spot and a-spots are (I tease him saying that's the reason why I keep him around is for his fingers) but even if I never had one of these orgasms before I would still have had great sex... A lot of women don't have these orgasms, I only know of one of my friends who's partner can get them off like this...

I've only had a quick squizz at the threads, but this looks like a cool place to be, hopefully I don't step into it too quickly

[thack]

I have been doing a lot of research in this, no, nothing extensive and scientific. . . lol ( I am me after all haha ) But just random websites, even some "instructional" videos. I am doing all of this because my GF has never ever had a vaginal orgasm, and well I'd like to be able to at least try lol. I know she can have orgasms, 99.999% of the time I can get her off by going down on her. BUT I digress, back to topic before I run off...

I had read many places and heard on some voice blogs that arousal can sorta pump it up, or make it swell, therefor my thoughts are "maybe its non existant for some women because most guys try to go there FOR arousal. . . perhaps AFTER fully aroused and a thrusting break, step back and play around with fingers to try and see if its there"

Thats my thought process, and when I see my GF next year (after deployment) I intend to find out lol mainly because 9 months without sex makes sex go pretty da*m fast (on my end sadly haha) its normal for that long w/o it, but I still would like to extend the time a bit. But from the stuff I have read, sometimes its flat until its properly pumped up (intercourse, foreplay, fingers, penetration, whatever for whoever)

IDK .. my 2 cents :P