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As has been mentioned above, you need to find out whether this will be a pattern that follows if you are in a long term realtionship with this partner. I'm sorry to say, that in my experience, if you have a partner that shows little interest at the start, things will only get worse. You'll be frustrated and be resentful. Sit her down and tell her that you have sexual needs and that you only want to share them with her. Tell her even if she doesn't feel like sex, she can, and must try, to still give you release in a loving way. As for masturbation, then I always must have an erotic scenario in my mind. My mind generates my sexual erection.(not the one in the morning, that's just physical) But I know that sexual release for me is very important and healthy. But I would always prefer my g/f's hands/mouth/vagina any day. As I've said before, women have lovely soft hands that can caress a penis in a very heightened way. Our own hands are a bit rough I think for full penile sensation. I'm sure women's hands were created just to stroke a penis.