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... Most men I've spoken to about this like watching a woman's face as she orgasms, turns them on to a point of distraction.

Princess, the expression on a woman's face as she orgasms is priceless. It is one of the reasons I suggest that guys get good with their hands, so they can observe their woman's expressions as she goes through climax. It can be addictive and is a good incentive to get her to orgasm multiple times.

Both Princess and jns are right: There is nothing I'd rather do than bring a woman to orgasm, seeing the look on her face and hearing her.
That's MY selfishness speaking.

And of course, my lover KNOWS this and has come to expect it (no pun intended...), so she has no difficulty responding.
- TR