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  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    Originally posted by KarlAva
    . And finishing inside her is physically too enjoyable for both of us in any way.
    Huh?
    How can sex be "too enjoyable"?
    I'm baffled.
    Isn't pleasure and enjoyment what it is about ?

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    • KarlAva
      Member
      • May 2010
      • 13

      Originally posted by WildChild
      Huh?
      How can sex be "too enjoyable"?
      I'm baffled.
      Isn't pleasure and enjoyment what it is about ?
      Sorry, I meant that finishing inside her is too enjoyable to want to finish on her face more often.

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      • kygirl
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2009
        • 1058

        I'd agree with everyone else. As long as you don't start doing it all the time, I'm sure she'd be more than happy to meet you halfway, but if you start pushing her to do it every single time, then it might get to be a bit much...and if she wants to make you happy, she may end up resentful...

        Everything in moderation
        If you smile when no one else is around, you really mean it.
        -Andy Rooney


        It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit.--Noel Coward

        Live your life and forget your age. --Norman Vincent Peale

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        • Guest

          Ok if she's willing. But as long as she is willing to receive it in other areas of her body. There is an in-built mechanism in us males to deposit the fluid onto the female partner somewhere. It's nature after all. But don't do it if she doesn't like it. Be open and ask her. If she says no,then ask her where you can ejaculate onto. I can guess it could be demeaning to her although you wouldn't mean it that way.

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          • tiensou
            Junior Member
            • Jun 2010
            • 4

            Hello

            My boyfriend likes to come on my face, and although it is demeaning, it can be pleasurable if the time is right.
            Obviously, there is no direct pleasure for the woman, but it is a good feeling to know you have satisfied them

            The only foul I can think of is getting gooey things in the hair! Eyes, you can laugh off later, but hair is kinda icky. Be a gentleman and push her hair back from her forehead.

            As long as you are fufilling her as well, then it's a lovely thing that your girlfriend is willing to try out new things and indulge your fantasies.
            Have fun

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            • eleni
              Senior Member
              • Feb 2010
              • 179

              give and take

              x
              'so why care for these petty obsessions? your designer heart still beats with common blood. and what if you could have genetic perfection? would you change who you are if you could?'

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              • sassi_classi
                Member
                • Jun 2010
                • 17

                Well there is this thing i do just for my fiancee' and he knows that i dont really care for it but i do it cause i know how much he enjoy it. at the sametime to know that letting him do it turns him on it kind of turns me on. and im kind of getting use to it and starting to enjoy it myself. so if she isnt worrying about it i dont think you should either. she might be getting use to it herself and maybe enjoying it. take pride in the fact that she care about you enough to do something that has no effect on her.

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                • Caitlyn
                  Junior Member
                  • Jun 2010
                  • 4

                  Hi!
                  Haven't seen such an open discussion about accepting facials before and it's great to hear from a man's point of view. I don't enjoy facials myself, but I was introduced when I was yougner and I've been asked a lot so I've gotten used to them. I've been honest about feeling messy and humiliated when taking it on my face, but If the man I'm with is great in bed, treats my with respect and is turned on by the act, then I have given permission. My boyfriend is crazy about facials and just seeing him so tuned on by it very ejnoyable and I feel proud for feeling comfortable enough to allow him. And I really love his reactions, telling me how much it turns him on to see my afterwards and how much he appreciates me doing it. I also think it's wonderful that you care about how she feels. My boyfriend also felt worried about me not liking it myself and I thought it was very sweet of him. If your partner has given you permission to ejaculate on her face and she is not too uncomfortable with it, then enjoy it and take good care of her!

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                  • KarlAva
                    Member
                    • May 2010
                    • 13

                    Hello again and thank you for the kind replies!
                    I'm sorry to hear that this act is not for everyone's liking, but I have nothing but respect for a woman who allows it, even if it's just to please her partner.

                    We had another talk with her and she honestly told me that she doesn't enjoy having me ejaculate on her face, but she has noticed something very positive and I have to agree with her - my sex drive has gone up significantly. We understood from the start that she has more sexual energy and I'm not up to it quite every night, but we've both made a little compromises and it has worked great. However, I find ejaculating on her face such a turn-on, that things have improved a lot. Just this monday I was dead tired coming from work and would have rather taken a nap, yet I could tell she was very turned on, we started slowly but when she told me I could ejaculate all over her face with an innocent look, that did it for me. And I have to admit that her acceptance is almost as big of a turn-on as the act itself.

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                    • Fallen1
                      Veteran Member
                      • Oct 2007
                      • 1937

                      Karl,

                      Maybe I read your post wrong but it came across (to me) as though you were to tired for sex but once you were offered what YOU wanted all that tiredness just magically went away.
                      There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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