[CharlesV]

I don't get this, seems a bit degrading and porn like, but if your both happy go for it!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, there are two things.

First of all, she loves wearing lingerie, mostly stockings with garter belts and high heelsAnd she sometimes finds it very kinky if she's not the only one dressed up. When she's in a very dominating mood, one of her biggest fantasies is taking me with a strap-on. Honestly, both of these acts feel rather awkward to me

, but I know it turns her on and that is enough for me

Her being sexy? Feeling like a woman? I can't see this as comparing with you ejaculating on her face, which makes her feel un-comfortable, I find this, to be something she is doing to make you feel like a man, her a woman, sexy and normal...

Charles I don't get this, seems a bit degrading and porn like, but if your both happy go for it!

I get the last one though.

"The Land Down Under" welcome, Aussie...

Na,I am not into porn but I feel sexy in this event, anywhere on my body....

CW

[Mitchel1870]

Allie602,

I hear what you are saying. I guess I always thought about sex being like fun play or a place to experiment, especially in a long term committed relationship. If my wife had fantasies, I'd want to help her with them and explore them. I would find gratification in the pleasure she received from me doing what she asked. I think I am a giving person, unfortunately I feel that my wife is a selfish kind of person.

I think she is equally 'grossed out' by her own bodily fluids. Lately she has complained about sweat during sex. For a male I am a very clean and shower quite often. If you have to do all of the work for 25-40 minutes, you are going to sweat. I find this a kinda of a fun part about it getting all sweaty and messy.

[Allie602]

Allie602,
I think she is equally 'grossed out' by her own bodily fluids. Lately she has complained about sweat during sex. For a male I am a very clean and shower quite often. If you have to do all of the work for 25-40 minutes, you are going to sweat. I find this a kinda of a fun part about it getting all sweaty and messy.

she is trying to tell you she is not happy about something and the br may be the only place she feels she can get your full attention. it's prob totally unrelated to sex sweat and sperm.

don't know how long you have been married but it sounds like there is an undercurrent of unresolved issues, unmet needs and unhappiness from the little you wrote. you describe your wife as selfish, would she say the same thing about you. you may be giving her what would make you happy not necc what makes her happy. she is doing the same thats prob why you think she is selfish and i'll bet she thinks the same of you. maybe settling issues outside of sex will ease the dissatisfaction in the br.

[kma415]

can speak for me and another friend, a lot of times a girl will do something she doesn't like just because her guy likes it and we have absolutely no problem with it. we just like to make ya happy ^_^ make sure that's how she feels though.

[KarlAva]

Her being sexy? Feeling like a woman? I can't see this as comparing with you ejaculating on her face, which makes her feel un-comfortable, I find this, to be something she is doing to make you feel like a man, her a woman, sexy and normal...

Hello!

I'm sorry, I didn't want to be too graphic in my previous post. She loves wearing lingerie and I find it incredibly arousing, but when she's in a kinky mood, she likes to ask me to wear women's lingerie too. And honestly, that and allowing her to use a strap-on is not the most comfortable feeling for me, but seeing how much she enjoys her wild side and how she appreciates it is more than worth it for me.

[AnneL]

I don't think there's anything bad about doing something like that just for your partner. Being ejaculated on my face is not the most enjoyable thing, but if a man that takes good care of me is turned on by it, then go ahead.
As for you liking her not enjoying it too much, as long as you're honest with her and she is okay with it, I don't see a problem with that. I know my boyfriend likes giving me facials in a somewhat dominating way and it's sometimes a bit humiliating, but mostly I just love how submissive it makes me feel and I wouldn't be surprise if your partner actually enjoys a part of it too.