[Guest]

maybe you should ask your partner what he really wants,different guys have different preference.

[toddparker]

google "best of craigslist tips on giving head". It's explicit but sfw. Your boyfriend will definitely appreciate you tak
ing the time to look it over.

[WildChild]

google "best of craigslist tips on giving head". It's explicit but sfw. Your boyfriend will definitely appreciate you tak
ing the time to look it over.

And is there a companion site on going down on women?
Do you suppose SHE would appreciate him taking time to learn?

[toddparker]

And is there a companion site on going down on women?
Do you suppose SHE would appreciate him taking time to learn?

Yes. As for the second question, I don't. Know. This person never adressed that issue. I don't believe it would be God for me to assume the answer, on way or the other. All I can do is say that I contributed to helping answer the question, because I read and know for a fact that is what the person who started the thread was looking for.

I'm typing this from my droid. That's why the spelling is the way it is.

[WildChild]

Yes. As for the second question, I don't. Know. This person never adressed that issue. I don't believe it would be God for me to assume the answer, on way or the other. All I can do is say that I contributed to helping answer the question, because I read and know for a fact that is what the person who started the thread was looking for.

I'm typing this from my droid. That's why the spelling is the way it is.

Women are bombarded with "how to please a man" stuff, I'm on a mission to change the thinking to "how to please each other".

[toddparker]

Women are bombarded with "how to please a man" stuff, I'm on a mission to change the thinking to "how to please each other".

That doesn't sound unreasonsble to me. But I don't understand how my response was any different than anyone else's. Do you think because I'm male and therefore can't relate to that I'm only concerned with what's good or pleases me? That's not a rhetorical or sarcastic question. I just thought I would mention that post because it DIRECeTLY. Applied to the question

[WildChild]

That doesn't sound unreasonsble to me. But I don't understand how my response was any different than anyone else's. Do you think because I'm male and therefore can't relate to that I'm only concerned with what's good or pleases me? That's not a rhetorical or sarcastic question. I just thought I would mention that post because it DIRECeTLY. Applied to the question

Didn't mean to sound like I was picking on you specifically or on men. We've had Sooooo many of these threads over and over. We never get women asking, how can I do a better of job letting him know what I need? What turns me on? Unfortunately a lot of men aren't open to hearing, it seems to be an ego issue. Guess I just get tired of the whole thing sometimes. If each would work at communicating and pleasing the other, we'd all be happier.

[sourpuss]

Women are bombarded with "how to please a man" stuff, I'm on a mission to change the thinking to "how to please each other".

Yeah!

[Rediscovered]

One of the things that excites me the most (as a woman) when my lover gives me oral is the fact that he loves doing it so much--loves everything about it. Loves looking at my bits, smelling them, tasting them, wants to take my panties home with him (and he has, lol), etc.

I would think that for a man, the same would hold true? That a woman loving every bit of a man's penis and really, really enjoying having him in her mouth and expressing it to him--that would be a wonderful turn-on for a man as well? More so than any particular "move" you did?

[Sassysister]

I agree with the poster above. When I am enjoying he knows and relishes every moment. It's not about the final product, take away that pressure and just explore. Use your tongue, hands, breath etc. Make sure he knows you want direction... some sign that certain things are feeling fantastic. I know myself.... something that was amazing one day, may be not as effective another.

Have fun and enjoy..... if he doesn't orgasm that way, then there are plenty of other ways.