[commonsense]

3some sex

Thank you all for your kind responses to the 3some sex. However, much of the answers were really vague. No detail on what actually happens. I know a lot of you are wondering whether I've done it yet. Well, I haven't. I don't think I'm ready yet. We are in love, but I would have been doing it to make him happy. He said he wanted to "experience" everything with me. He had a girl in mind that I don't know. He's not pressuring me, but I always feel in the back of my mind that this is something that he wants. Anyway, it's on the back burner for now.

[penny_1]

think first

i have had a 3sum and i dont think i would do it again it was over a year ago now and i still think about that night.i felt good at first but then i just felt left out he was my man and he spent alot of time getting her arroused and she was screming and this made me feel very uncomfortable i also didnt relizes at the time he actually had sexual intercourse with her i havent spoke about that night since it makes me feel very uncomfortable and i wish it never happened and to make things worse she was a very close friend.

i also understand that every 1 is diffrent and you may enjoy it but i would think first before you rush into anything as i wouldnt want you to be in my position and go through what i've been through

[bobbi79]

well my husband wants to do the same thing and im all for it we just caant find anyone to do it

[shauna]

I read your response that every body is giving their opinon but not really saying what really goes on. It really depends on you and the other people. Obviously you are going to be kissing the other girl, touching her, etc. You have to think about whether or not you would like that. For your bf he will have a lot fun just watching. The important thing is to get someone you are both attracted too. Then set the rules right away. Most couple say no to having any penetration but that is something you would have to discuss. If you want to try it you could just start out with kissing and touching and playing with each other and see if you want it further. You will know.

[KISH]

forgive Me If I Sound Crazy But I Never Liked The Idea Of It. Who Ever Did It, Or Is About To Do It Opens The Door To Cheating. It Might Seem Well First But After A While You Can Never Accuse Each Other Of Cheating Because If You Agreed To It In The First Place...who Are You To Argue The Second Time Around. Some Women Can Be So Gullible For The Sake Of Love. In The End The Only Person Who Benefits Is The Person Who Wasnt Part Of Your Relationship. The Got To Lay Both Of You. What A Pity.

[Mandie Dawn]

i'm bisexual also and have had three-somes etc but never in a relationship, just when my friends and i are all single we mess around, i don't believe anyone in a solid relationship should ever ask or want to sleep with someone else even if you are there and if there do there is something very wrong in the relationship, the "more excitement" speech is crap, it's just like when people "take a break" for there partner, which is basically asking for a way to sleep with other people but still have you in the backgroundfficeffice" />>>

[creativename]

forgive Me If I Sound Crazy But I Never Liked The Idea Of It. Who Ever Did It, Or Is About To Do It Opens The Door To Cheating. It Might Seem Well First But After A While You Can Never Accuse Each Other Of Cheating Because If You Agreed To It In The First Place...who Are You To Argue The Second Time Around. Some Women Can Be So Gullible For The Sake Of Love. In The End The Only Person Who Benefits Is The Person Who Wasnt Part Of Your Relationship. The Got To Lay Both Of You. What A Pity.

It doesn't open the door for cheating if you lay down specific terms and guidelines. Like the couple always has to be both there, and willing. You can't claim cheating if both of your are there and willing.

Threesomes should only be attempted by comfortable strong relationships and people that are not jealous types or just doing it to please the other party. It should be something exciting and enjoyable for both partners.

[foxyscarlett]

to swing or not to swing...

I asked the question because a lover wanted to do it. It was more on his fantasy than mine. >

Only do it if you're interested, otherwise instead of bringing you closer together it will tear you apart.

The actual act can be fun as long as you trust your partner and trust the new addition to the group.

There is no why to actually detail what happens. Just like I cant detail what happens when theres 2 people.

In my experience, I have had a few, usually with 2 gals 1 guy. Ive been in the relationship and Ive been the new addition.

Physically we girls paid the most attention to eachother, but, the guy got involved too.

Theres no way that i can promise that's what will happen for you too.

FoxyScarlett>>

[nicky2007]

i disagree, theres nothing wrong with my relationship, i love sex and i love experimenting with new things, i would never want to be with anyone else apart from my partner, and i wouldnt want to do it if he wasnt there. we do lots of fun things like camming aswell. however, i would be upset if he had full sex with someone. it is fun (well in my experiences) and i think its great that we can share something like that, hes my best friend aswell as my lover, and the thought of turning him on with another girl is fine with me,bcz to put it bluntly i know am the only one who gets the ****! she can suck it all she wants but shes not getting anything from it, and more importantly hes comming home with me!
its not for everyone, but i like it

[commonsense]

3some sex

In response to "his watching while I touch the other woman" as part of the deal. I know that part wouldn't work for me because I'm not attracted to women.