[SinisterUrge]

What about the concern of STD when engaging in 3 someone with someone you don't know? Can anyone educate me on this?

Same applies as when two people have sex. The woman(women) should have their own birth control options. men wear condoms, new condom when using a new hole. This includes vaginal to vaginal and vaginal to . Most people don't wear condoms for oral, my only advice is to put your faith in Allah in that situation. (The oral sex/HIV rule of thumb is: "swallow or spit, don't let it sit" HIV has a far lower transmission rate in oral sex)

..... the MMF threesomes seem to make more sense to me. As women don't need the recovery time, stamina etc that males do so you'd think it would just flow more smoothly

Well first I'll say that while a MFM threesome isn't unheard of, its more likely to become a gangbang. Let me define:

Three-way: All three consenting adults have sex with each other.

GangBang: Two of the consenting adults have sex with a third consenting adult. Without the first two having sex themselves.

Orgy: If you're having group sex, and at some point you forget how many people are involved, or what you've already done with what other partners, you're having an orgy. If you can keep track you're only having a 5-way, 6-way, 8-way (whatever).

I guess my point is, if you're involved with (or married to) a bisexual, chances are pretty good that at some point or another your partner is gonna want to do what you are anatomically incapable of. This doesn't mean your partner doesn't love you, but being sexually unfulfilled is just unhealthy.

Normally i suggest professional help when a couple is looking for a third. People are less likely to become smitten with somebody when they're paying them $200+ an hour. Plus pro's already are very familiar with the logistics and don't mind showing you.

And finally if you're taking part in a MFM three-way and the two men want to "go fishing up on Brokeback" then be sure to have a lube that doesn't interfere with latex condoms. i think you'll want water based instead of silicon based.

[Hopeless Dork]

I hadn't thought about the gang bang vs threesome and what you're saying makes sense. It is true that a girl would be more likely to indulge her guy, playing with another girl for him, whether shes bisexual or not.

Although I think the word gangbang is probably harsh if its a more sensual exchange of 2 men pleasuring a woman together, although not each other.

The threesome I participated in, was I guess in fact then a female gangbang on a guy because we didn't make out with each other at all, we both focused only on him. We were all around 19 though, including him so it was like a 10 minute drunken encounter.

[SinisterUrge]

Yes women can have gangbangs.

And gangbang probably IS harsh, but really. Politically Correct terminology is a fairly new idea for kinky sex. How long did it take for gays and lesbians to get the clout to be called gays and lesbians and not a more colorful slur. And gays/lesbians really outnumber "polyamorists" by about a billion to one. So someday there will be a more gentle term for gangbang, but until thats all we got.

Us sadomasochists aren't being called "extreme foreplay practitioners" on TV every time a new serial killer shows-up on the news. So, it could be worse.

[cassie66]

no ive never tried it. personally i would never doit whislt in a committed relationship, asit woud destroy the love amd trust