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  • Magnetism
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2009
    • 1060

    Women who like porn: Is your male partner bothered by it?

    I'm just wondering if anyone has had this experience. Did your male partner feel offended or judgmental that you were a woman that enjoyed porn?

    Sure, a guy can say "I would love it if my girlfriend was into porn!", but his reaction might be different once he's in the situation.

    My exes were okay with, but I've had a few other guys judge me for it.

    I admit..When I was 18, I was naive and blurted out to a male friend that I watched it. I figured he wouldn't care, but he didn't take it took kindly. I've learned that I probably should just keep it to myself, unless I'm with a crowd that's okay with it....
    "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"
  • LadyC
    Senior Member
    • Mar 2010
    • 101

    I don't see a problem with porn. I can understand how some people may feel that it opens doors to infidelity or whatever. To me it is just a visual. My husband doesn't care if I watch it. He prefers to watch it with me, but I watch pretty much everything (except for bestiality, necrophilia, rape, scat, etc. so I guess not everything) and there are some things he prefers not to watch with me.

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    • tinycit
      Member
      • Feb 2010
      • 49

      My husband doesn't have any problem with my porn habits. I look at porn, he looks at porn and sometimes we look at it together.

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      • Magnetism
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2009
        • 1060

        I don't see a problem with porn either, but some of the stuff out there has been getting grosser by the day. I feel like you have to take your time to look for something that can genuinely turn you on..hmmm..Some of these porn for women sites aren't bad at all.
        "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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        • LadyC
          Senior Member
          • Mar 2010
          • 101

          Originally posted by PaneraBread
          I don't see a problem with porn either, but some of the stuff out there has been getting grosser by the day. I feel like you have to take your time to look for something that can genuinely turn you on.
          I would say that is because of all of the fetishes people have. So. . . would that mean people's fetishes and wants are getting grosser and grosser?. . .

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          • Mes T
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 2678

            Originally posted by LadyC
            I would say that is because of all of the fetishes people have. So. . . would that mean people's fetishes and wants are getting grosser and grosser?. . .
            Nah, I think fetishes have always been the same. Just more people taking a risk and making videos out of it.

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            • emptypea2001
              Member
              • Feb 2010
              • 45

              I think it is more prevalent than people think. My wife actually came up with the idea years ago - we watched together and had fantastic sex. Since then the only time she got mad at me for watching is when she walked in on me masturbating. She likes to watch together, but then again, I just discovered a couple of weeks ago that she had been watching by herself while masturbating with her vibrator and dildo (she doesn't know I know about this). I'm fine with her doing this by herself as long as it doesn't become a substitute for sex with me.

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              • Magnetism
                Veteran Member
                • Jan 2009
                • 1060

                Originally posted by Mes_T
                Nah, I think fetishes have always been the same. Just more people taking a risk and making videos out of it.
                True. It's more business if you market to that population and make it easier for them to access what they want.
                "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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                • bangbangbby
                  Member
                  • Nov 2009
                  • 27

                  My boyfriend doesn't mind. He thinks it's kind of 'hot'. We watch it together every now and then. We still have sex and he doesn't watch it by his self all the time when I'm gone, so it's fine with both of us.

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                  • Ashlee T.
                    Veteran Member
                    • Dec 2008
                    • 6412

                    I've found that most guys say they're fine with it, but when it actually comes up, they tend to be jealous. They usually don't SAY they're jealous but the signs are all there. Jealous of toys and porn, mainly because they think if I'm using those things for sexual pleasure I should always 100% of the time be using them for my sexual pleasure instead of the toys or porn. Even if I had sex with them twice a day, 6 days a week and used my toy once....."well wouldn't you have rather had the real thing?!"
                    "Be what you're looking for."

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