[Captain D]

Hello Ladies


I was wandering if someone could help me here. I have a Large penis. I'm a single guy and whenever a women says it me "It's too Big" or i can tell by her reaction when we have sex that it's to big. This makes me feel like something that words can't describe whenever this happens. This is so so personal.
obviously there is nothing i can do about it. We can't have sex if this is the case. Everytime this happens it just tears me apart. If it's painful then she must say but there is nothing that i can do about it. I've heard that some women say that they are " Big down there" I feel like i need to have sex with only women who can handle me. I'm serious. This is not a Joke. Because otherwise it ends up being a sexual freak show. Thanks.

[Hopeless Dork]

Your problem is not unheard of for sure. I know of plenty girls that have had, or attempted to have sex with a guy that was much too large for their body and they didn't enjoy it at all and are hesitant or flat out refuse to continue sexual relations. I've also known some women that have had or attempted to have sex with a guy that was much too small for their body and they didn't enjoy it at all and are hesitant or flat out refuse to continue sexual relations...

But I've also known girls that have said a guy was quite small but used his hands and mouth to her advantage... I don't see why the reverse of that can't work in your case... learn or try to make love to a woman with more than just your penis if you find that it provides great discomfort to them with penetration.

Lube is your friend for a female that is too small for your penis and also avoid positions like doggie style or putting her legs over your shoulders as that just makes the vaginal canal shorter and can make the experience all that much more painful if a man is 'too large'... try missionary with lots of lube for women that are too small, try shortening your strokes and perhaps maybe finishing with oral or manual stimulation?

There is someone for everyone... and i'm sure your size would be appreciated by lots of women... its all about finding a compatible match

[ItsASecret]

My boyfriend is above average at 7 1/2 inches and yes it can hurt, the key is not to slam it in there. If you take your time and do not push all the way then it can definitely be pleasurable but try not to take it so personal. That will be hard yes but know that there are women out there who do prefer larger packaged men, and countless numbers of men who actually wish they had the blessing that you do.

[PandaPaws]

Any woman who is truly worth your time will want to work with you on this. Whether it be pleasuring in other ways, or using lots of lube and going SLOW... The right girl will be happy to get things going with you

[LanaBear]

Any woman who is truly worth your time will want to work with you on this. Whether it be pleasuring in other ways, or using lots of lube and going SLOW... The right girl will be happy to get things going with you

Completely agree.

[SaharaJim]

You don't say if the "problem" is length or girth but if length then you may purchase a "donut" that slides onto your member and prevents overpenetration. Also be aware that some positions have by their nature deeper penetration than others. Finally, woman on top allows her to set the rate and depth of penetration. Good luck.

[Joey]

'Hello ladies....I have a big penis' That just made me chuckle. LOL!!!

Your definitly not the only guy in this position. One of my girl mates actually had to end her relationship with her boyfriend because of his beast of a size!
Like said above, you need to take it slow. You dont want to go pounding into someone and end up causing serious damage! lol.

As HD said, you will find someone who you are compatible with.

[WildChild]

Used to go with a guy who was quite large and I was pretty petite then - not a problem. Work on becoming a master at arousal. Guess every woman is different but I never found size varience an issue, either way. Take time to really get to know a woman first, the way she feels about you has a lot to do with her response.

[FloridaGuy1972]

This can indeed be a negative issue for a lot of guys, and it sometimes get swept under the rug because it's a bit rare. While penis reductions are virtually never done unless in the case of disease or some serious medical situations, they would probably be welcomed by some men, and also some women, in order to make sex less awkward. Just my two cents.

[maverick]

I'm a firm beleiver that there is someone for everyone. My friend Deb is a petite little thing. She is also a size queen. She prefers well endowed men and would drop a boyfriend in a heartbeat if he did not measure up. Most women can accommodate a fairly large penis as far as girth goes. Depth is a different situation. I think that it is true that a woman that cares for you will work with you on this. In the interim try some positions, such a spooning, that allow for shallower penetration. Also, as noted above, cowgirl let's her control the depth of penetration.