[cinnamonheart88]

Hey

I have just learned how to squirt in the recent past I would like to say firstly if anyone reading this doesn't believe they are capable of it, Im pretty sure you are... I think that every woman can do this they just have to be very in tune with their bodies and not be scared and think they are going to pee. You release as if you are going to pee but its not pee its practically water.. then you will learn what squirting feels like and be able to do it all the time.. don't give up! it took me years... anyway on a different note I want to know why I do have this ability to squirt yet i don't have these mind blowing g spot orgasms everyone talks about.. I can have a clitoral one just fine and it feels amazing especially when my boyfriend is in me and it leaves me totally satisfied but when I have sex, I feel it building and then it just kind of levels off at that or I squirt.. no insane orgasm. Why is this? Even when I go at it myself for like 15 minutes it doesn't happen....

[Librian]

Firstly women orgasm differently depending on the stimulation. I can orgasm through clitorial, vaginal or g spot stimulation and all are different for me. Also my mood affects which is more intense on the day. Squirting is good but sometimes its not the best especially if its too early and I still want penetration (then it doesn't feel very intense). But other times it is the earth shattering experience that leaves me completely satisfied... So for me it varies.

I think if you can squirt you are having an orgasm. Perhaps relax and stop trying - it works for me

[cinnamonheart88]

thank you! that gives me hope... can you explain how vaginal stimulation differs from g spot or clitoral? and how the orgasms differ if you can... you know cosmo and other instructional sources tend to make it seem like there is either g spot or clitoral and thats it.. ive heard from woman that its not always as clear cut is this true?

[pocari]

IMO, I don't believe needing to pee is a sign that we're getting a gspot. When the penis enters the vagina and we feel like we want to pee, I assume more on the bladder spot it hits .. I mean it's just doesn't make sense to me that urinating sensation = gspot because it is uncomfortable and if too much we can get infection. Gspot still a mystery in my sexual life... tons of advises needed, humbly