[BasketCase]

JNS- I don't think that is the case. I mean I could be wrong but I have never seen him masturbate and he has said before that he doesn't do it. Unless he is hiding it from me I don't think thats the issue.

HD- I think the timing may be off, but I don't think it's the root of the problem. He will usually only do it before bed.

At first i thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me anymore. So I tried a million ways to get him in the mood but sexy outfits and things to that nature. But I really think that just made things worse he said I was putting to much pressure on him. So I stopped, and now there just isn't anything. And when he made that comment it hurt me so bad that I can't get past it. I can't even bring myself to try anymore. That's what I worry about.

[WildChild]

Oh Dearheart, He's shut you out and he shut you down. Such a very low libido in one so young could indicate a health issue - possibly serious. Encourage him get a check up and let the doctor know that he has a very low libido.
He may well be embarassed and unwilling to admit that he could be the one with the problem, so he puts it on you. That is wrong. It can be difficult to be a woman with a high interest in sex; for all the talking men do about women who don't want sex, many have a real problem accepting and dealing with a women who wants sex, maybe more than they do. I've dealt with this all my sex life and I have shut down few times due to a sexually negative relationship. It's not a good place to be, it's not healthy and it's not right. He may be seem to be a good man in many ways but his attitude toward your sexually and your mutual sexual relationship, is not respectful of your needs.

Talk to him, he needs to understand what this is doing to you.