[mommies3]

Hello i am new here and this is my first post in the sex forum, So please be kind if this sounds awkward.
I have visited the site and read all about the g-spot and i thought really, i must not have that.
But me and my wonderful husband had sex last night and for the first time i guess i was relaxed enough for it to finally happen. Wish it had been from penetration with the penis but IT WAS AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He did the come hither motion i have heard so much about and WOW. I hope he does that every time.

I am so glad i read about it on here so i kind of new what was going on. I hope to find out more on here.

[mr.mansview]

congratulations and welcome..the women here really know what they are talking about..who knows what other pleasures await you

[mommies3]

I am looking forward to any other pleasures!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope i read more here, I have used some of the other tips from the ladies on here and WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you all really do know alot.

[LanaBear]

Congratulations! That's wonderful news to hear!!!

[Texasred]

congratulations and welcome..the women here really know what they are talking about..who knows what other pleasures await you

mommies3, you won't find them here, though!
After you made that discovery, why aren't you back in the bedroom learning more?
Have fun,
- TR

[mommies3]

It would be great to be back in the bedroom learning more, unfortunately my husband doesnt want sex as much as i do. We had another fight about that last night. What he doesnt understand is its not all about the sex, sex is great but i love the feeling of being close to him and not having another care in the world but him. And maybe im going through that phase in my life where i am more sexual than he is , but hopefully it will be different before long.
what i dont understand is why he cant just tell me no, why does he have to be cold about it and hurt my feelings? Do any of you or have you ever had this happen.? Maybe i am being crazy about this, I dont know

[WildChild]

You aren't crazy and this isn't all that uncommon. Quite a few of here have complained of men who just aren't interested and can be rather harsh about it. It is a fallacy that men always want sex more than women - this is highly individual. There are plenty of women who really want and enjoy sex and a lot men who just aren;t that into it.

[mommies3]

Thank you! at least now i know im not alone. He has been very apologetic today. Its hard to forget but i do forgive him. Guess i will have to be more understanding on this issue.
Thank you wildchild, that made me feel a bit better

[Texasred]

What he doesnt understand is its not all about the sex, sex is great but i love the feeling of being close to him and not having another care in the world but him. And maybe im going through that phase in my life where i am more sexual than he is , but hopefully it will be different before long.
what i dont understand is why he cant just tell me no, why does he have to be cold about it and hurt my feelings? Do any of you or have you ever had this happen.? Maybe i am being crazy about this, I dont know

You're not being crazy - it's a natural part of lovemaking to want to enjoy that great feeling of closeness!
But maybe there's a reason he's not as interested as you, and he isn't willing to talk about it, so he fabricates the coldness to turn you away rather than admit for example that he's not interested when he thinks guys are *always* supposed to be interested. Is he always able to "perform," or does he occasionally have a problem with that? If so, fear of that happening again could drive him to reject you and act hurtfully.
Talking to him about it wouldn't hurt. Well, it wouldn't hurt you, but it might him, so approach this subject as if you were walking through a minefield, because that's what it is for relationships.
- TR

[jns]

How old are you both? Maybe he's jealous because you got a new toy and he got nothing. Maybe he wants to do it only once in a while to have you beg for it. What did he apologize about, his words or his lack of deeds?