[CHANDLERS WISH]

Tell the men that Day Tripper...

Thy penis rules.......................

But, seriously even with a 69'r.. "alot" of men cum very quickly, alot of women take time, it doesn't equate either, even if they stop, and he enters, he then cums, so she is still in the same position, a quick oral, and a quick um, sexual encounter...

I wonder how many men actually learn the art of or are willing to learn the art of control? I wonder how many actually want to please a woman as well as being pleased?


Thinking back on fiancée, husband, men, well I am 47, I can't recall once when it was equal or even close to it, random 2 minutes thanks, horney, off I go, if I was lucky, what's with that?

I am not going into my private life now but I can say I am more than happy, maybe age has something to do with it as well? Not as selfish, or ego and so over the years has taken the time to work things out?

CW

[Hopeless Dork]

I don't like 69... I'm either too lost in my own pleasure to concentrate on his... or I'm too focused on his to concentrate on my own. I like taking turns instead lol 1 person gets all the time and attention they need/want then on another day (or same encounter) the other getting all the time and attention they want.

And Jns, yep what women eat affects them too. Not just your private area juices, but sweat and pee smell is also affected by diet. Like olympia mentioned... asparagus... if you have eaten a lot when you pee the smell is strong and horrible. Eat tons of garlic many days in a row and notice that your sweat starts to smell like it..

[Day Tripper]

Tell the men that Day Tripper...

Thy penis rules.......................

But, seriously even with a 69'r.. "alot" of men cum very quickly, alot of women take time, it doesn't equate either, even if they stop, and he enters, he then cums, so she is still in the same position, a quick oral, and a quick um, sexual encounter...

I wonder how many men actually learn the art of or are willing to learn the art of control? I wonder how many actually want to please a woman as well as being pleased?


Thinking back on fiancée, husband, men, well I am 47, I can't recall once when it was equal or even close to it, random 2 minutes thanks, horney, off I go, if I was lucky, what's with that?

I am not going into my private life now but I can say I am more than happy, maybe age has something to do with it as well? Not as selfish, or ego and so over the years has taken the time to work things out?

CW

I can't speak for all men since we're all different and we don't really talk about sex at that level of detail - with each other, however, I will say that personally, nothing turns me on more than turning on my lover, and the longer I can delay my orgasm the more intense and orgasmic it is. A mutual orgasm during 69 is incredible if the man can hold back his excitement as long as he can and allows his partner to reach her peak of excitement too. You are right, it is an art and it is all about pleasing the woman. There is nothing more beautiful and seductive than a contented woman who has just blown her mind on sex. In fact, it is a complete turn on. Time for round two

I know that some men just don't get it, but, there are also as many woman who need sexual enlightenment (great forum for this). I also think that people should not settle for less than a compatible lover in this lifetime. Sex is healthy, doesn't cost anything, and calms the savage beast. We are Gods and Goddesses and we should honor and celebrate each other as such. To worship the Penis is to worship a false God!

- Day Tripper

[Day Tripper]

I don't like 69... I'm either too lost in my own pleasure to concentrate on his... or I'm too focused on his to concentrate on my own. I like taking turns instead lol 1 person gets all the time and attention they need/want then on another day (or same encounter) the other getting all the time and attention they want.

Different strokes for different folks, HD. All is fair in love as long as the chemistry (compatibility) is there.

After reading this thread, I'm never going to eat asparagus again

- Day Tripper

[WildChild]

Whatever happened to the good old 69 position? It doesn't get better, hotter, or more fair than that. IMHO.

- Day Tripper

69 is useless for a woman's pleasure. No way you can concetrate on what you are giving and on what you are recieving at the same time. I'm with HD on this one, take turns.

[jns]

With ED, I can see an advantage in the department of getting a woman to climax and not getting too worked up. Amazing, but in this case it is an advantage. Of course, it also means that any orgasms by penetration will not usually be by penis penetration, but would more likely be toys or I suppose fingers.

I am sorry to see that so many of you great woman moderators and posters have never had a guy who was willing to spend whatever time it took and by whatever methods it took, to get you a point where you had so many orgasms in a row that you asked him to stop because you were worn out.

As I have stated before in other posts, I honestly don't understand why so many men shy away from doing oral on women and many that do are too anxious to get on to other things. I do understand if the oral takes a long time, it becomes tiring to keep a tongue stiff enough, or to flick it enough to bring the woman to orgasm. I also know, depending on the position, the neck can ache a lot from keeping the tongue in contact. This is where proper positioning and adding the use of fingers can help along with several pillows.

[xxredroz3xx]

69 is useless for a woman's pleasure. No way you can concetrate on what you are giving and on what you are recieving at the same time. I'm with HD on this one, take turns.

I agree.

[Texasred]

I wonder how many men actually learn the art of or are willing to learn the art of control?

I learned it, and over-learned it, and now need to un-learn it a little.
Learning self-control is easier, I think, than learning how to surrender control...

I wonder how many actually want to please a woman as well as being pleased?

I for one (and I'm sure I can't be the only one) think there is absolutely nothing better on this earth than pleasing the woman I love! It gives me great pleasure to do so.
I *WANT* to please her because I love her, and I'd rather she be satisfied than myself, if it came down to a choice.
But it usually doesn't, since she loves to reciprocate!
You'd certainly think men could figure that out - that when you please someone, she'll be that much happier to please YOU!
I have in fact pleasured her with hands or tongue when she wanted sex but I was genuinely too tired to be an active participant; simply because I like pleasing her, not, heaven knows, because I'm particularly unselfish!