[em393]

So there is this guy I'm interested in, we have kissed a few times but nothing more than this. Well to get to the point my friend had a party last night because her parents were away. At the end of the night a few of us that were left there (including the boy) went skinny dipping. I saw his penis and it was really long, almost as big as my ex when he got hard. I'm on the petite side so this is why I'm a little curious.

[jns]

Are you curious if it will fit or what is your question? How big was your ex?

[em393]

I think he was about average. I have only been with him so it is hard for me to compare it. But what I am saying is that when he wasn't hard it was pretty small, and this guy was huge. I am worried about fit as I don't think I can handle a really big penis.

[em393]

Sorry my question is is he going to be too big for us to have sex

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I think that you may find that he was partually erect in any event, however, even if he wasn't the only lover you want in your life is a caring one.

If it's "sex' only then you are going to have to ask him to be gentle and take is slow.

If it's a potential, future boyfriend, I assume you may take a few dates first But, again, let him know your not experienced and you want him to take it slow..

CW

[Guest]

Just because it looks long when it may be flaccid doesn't mean it will be longer when erect. A lot of guys have small looking penises but get up to 6-8 inches when erect. (mine doesn't look big when flaccid) It could be as CW says that he was partially erect anyway. The best way to tell would be to have a look at it when he gets out of the water. Cold water does make everything contract. The penis shrinks and the testes move up into a pocket in the groin where they can keep warm. Hope this helps. Don't worry about whether he will fit inside you, as CW says, if he's caring and loving it shouldn't hurt anyway.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

The penis shrinks and the testes move up into a pocket in the groin where they can keep warm.

Please forgive me They say you learn something new everyday, so no matter of my age, I just learnt something

That and this computer has no spell check where partially was wrong which I could edit but then that would be cheating......

OP it just goes to show that we all have questions or, learn something about the other sex....

I think Thomas explained it very well...

CW

[Guest]

Yes, that's where girding the loins originally came from. Most men can push their balls up into the lower stomach. In olden days they used to do this before battle to protect the equipment. I've tried it and it actually is more uncomfortable than letting them hang naturally. And the penis does shrink when in cold water again to keep warm. You ought to go to a nudist beach and these natural occurences would be visible.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

HAHA.. Darn well I did once, upon a time, years ago..Beach that is, but seriously... That must be difficult for a man to do....

Certainly, we know they shrink but in a shower warmth, not at all

[Guest]

No mine doesn't shrink in the shower as the water is warm. But yes, the testes must always be kept at the correct temperature. That's why on really hot days our sacs suspend down so that they get some cool air all around them. Makes it look like our balls are twice the size, but it's just the sac itself.