[Guest]

The other thing em393 is that the foreskin can make a flaccid penis look longer as well. If he had one then that could add another inch or so to the visible length.
The foreskin of course retracts when entering the vagina.

[jns]

Sorry my question is is he going to be too big for us to have sex

When a woman gets very aroused there are changes that take place that allow her vagina to accommodate longer and thicker penises. Make sure he spends time getting you aroused and uses enough lubricant. You should be wet from arousal and possibly flushed, hot and/or trembling.

[em393]

I don't think it was erect because it went straight down flat. He is a lot tallet than I am so maybe just everythinh looks bigger. We might be alone tonight so it would be good to know!

[WildChild]

We had some discussion on a thread a while back on "growers' and 'show-ers" (remember that thread CW? If it was real life those two might have been heading out back to settle things in a more primitive manner LOL). Anyway a 'grower' is a penis that looks small when flacid but grows quite a bit erect. A 'show-er" looks pretty big flacid and may not be much larger erect. You can't know until you see him erect.
Either way, what you can handle really has more to do with how aroused you are than how big he is.

[bleu]

we had some discussion on a thread a while back on "growers' and 'show-ers". . . Anyway a 'grower' is a penis that looks small when flacid but grows quite a bit erect. A 'show-er" looks pretty big flacid and may not be much larger erect.

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[hizenberg]

you will need to take it nice and slow,and comunnicate to him what is good and what hurts.i was once petite,size 6 and my ex was like a 'monster' lol down there,if you tell him to take it easy and all things will be fine.But if your tense and nervous your most likley going to be sore or get hurt,as i have found out lol. good luck with that

[em393]

I have to say I am curious about what it would feel like to have a big penis inside of me. However I also don't want to get 'ruined' for other guys later. So tomorrow night he is going to come over and it will just be both of us alone...I think I want to sleep with him but keep going back and forth in my head. Thank you to everyone for the feedback and I will see how this goes...

[WildChild]

I have to say I am curious about what it would feel like to have a big penis inside of me. However I also don't want to get 'ruined' for other guys later. So tomorrow night he is going to come over and it will just be both of us alone...I think I want to sleep with him but keep going back and forth in my head. Thank you to everyone for the feedback and I will see how this goes...

Having sex with a man who has a large penis or with anything else larger than the average such as a good sized dildo will not "ruin" you in any way. I had a wonderful lover who was quite large many years ago, that has in no way affected my ability to enjoy sex with any other man.

[Hopeless Dork]

That whole "ruined" stuff is a myth, spread about by insecure men. The vagina has the elasticity to birth a baby and go back to intercourse 6 weeks later with a penis much smaller than the size of the baby that they birthed. If you think having sex with a largely endowed man ruins a woman... you'd have to think that once a woman has a baby she is no longer able to have or enjoy sex as she would be much more 'ruined'.

Vaginal size is all about various things... including gentics, some virgin females are more lose than porn stars. Its also to do with kegals and use of those muscles... some women that are active with large men are tighter than women that have sex less actively even with a small penis.

[Magnetism]

That whole "ruined" stuff is a myth, spread about by insecure men. The vagina has the elasticity to birth a baby and go back to intercourse 6 weeks later with a penis much smaller than the size of the baby that they birthed. If you think having sex with a largely endowed man ruins a woman... you'd have to think that once a woman has a baby she is no longer able to have or enjoy sex as she would be much more 'ruined'.

Vaginal size is all about various things... including gentics, some virgin females are more lose than porn stars. Its also to do with kegals and use of those muscles... some women that are active with large men are tighter than women that have sex less actively even with a small penis.

Word. The same thing goes for women with multiple or various sex partners (just insert a number that each individual male thinks is too high). The vagina doesn't become huge, as some men would like to believe.