One thing I would now recommend is that your dr. do a full blood work which includes tests for B-12 and D-3. I say this because as many would know the trials and tribulations of my last 3 years or so in dealing with my wife having virtually no sex drive at all and even less interest in having any sort of intimate relations with me she went to a different dr. last week and she had a battery of tests done which was not done at any time prior. Found out that her hormone levels were normal, but she was B-12 and D-3 defficient. Doing a bit of research (I know dangerous on my part) that this can have similar effects as to some of the symptoms associated with low libido and perimenopause.
-
Haven't really commented since the beginning of the thread, but am now jumping back in. I now am of the majority opinion that yeah, the checkup is really necessary at this point.
One thing I would now recommend is that your dr. do a full blood work which includes tests for B-12 and D-3. I say this because as many would know the trials and tribulations of my last 3 years or so in dealing with my wife having virtually no sex drive at all and even less interest in having any sort of intimate relations with me she went to a different dr. last week and she had a battery of tests done which was not done at any time prior. Found out that her hormone levels were normal, but she was B-12 and D-3 defficient. Doing a bit of research (I know dangerous on my part) that this can have similar effects as to some of the symptoms associated with low libido and perimenopause.
Get The Newsletter
Latest Activity
-
Reply to Birth Control Thoughts
Oh, this is a very many-layered topic! When I was younger, I visited Planned Parenthood (PP) for my own STI testing, for lots of reasons, but mainly for...
09-16-2026, 08:09 PM By JonnyR -
How are we all handling birth control now these days? I got the Nexaplanon 5 years ago and its time for a renewal. When I got it there was a huge buzz...
09-15-2026, 12:29 PM By Birdie_567 -
Reply to Women - not climaxing
Mermaidsheets that used to happen to me all the time. Seriously frustrating, but definitely nothing to be embarrassed about! So much of it can be a mental...
09-11-2026, 11:12 AM By somewhereroo -
Reply to Women - not climaxing
Hello Mermaidsheets welcome to the forum! What you are experiencing with arousal and climaxing is actually pretty common for a lot of women.
...09-09-2026, 05:17 PM By JonnyR -
Hello, I’m 40, a cis woman, and I’ve been married for 10 years. We were having sex and I was nearly to climax when it sort of just dissipated. This...
09-08-2026, 08:19 PM By Mermaidsheets
Latest Topics
-
How are we all handling birth control now these days? I got the Nexaplanon 5 years ago and its time for a renewal. When I got it there was a huge buzz...
09-15-2026, 12:29 PM By Birdie_567 -
Hello, I’m 40, a cis woman, and I’ve been married for 10 years. We were having sex and I was nearly to climax when it sort of just dissipated. This...
09-08-2026, 08:19 PM By Mermaidsheets -
Does anyone have any experience with PCOS and getting rid of unwanted facial hair? What started as one singular strand on my chin in my 20s has turned...
07-27-2026, 07:25 AM By Birdie_567
Comment